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SisterMilkshake (original poster member #30024) posted at 5:56 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
this morning. At least, I was dreaming there was.
After my husband left for work this morning I fell back asleep. This is when I have the oddest and most vivid dreams.
Anyway, there was a bear asleep at the bottom of the bed on my husband's side. (BTW, we watched Life of Pi yesterday.) I didn't know what to do! I was pretty scared.
Then I got the brilliant idea to ask my SI friends how to get the bear off the bed and out of the house safely for everyone. As I was getting out of bed to come and post I woke up. I looked at the bottom of the bed to see how big the bear was so I could tell you all how big it was.
No bear! Just husband's dark thick, fleecy robe in a pile.
I was very disoriented. 
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 5:57 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 6:15 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 6:22 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 7:33 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Are you channeling Goldilocks?
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 7:50 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 9:03 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013
Something like this?
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
SisterMilkshake (original poster member #30024) posted at 12:40 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
TR, I am kind of creeped out that you have a picture of me and the bear!
I like how I didn't want to call 911, the police, the DNR, or Animal Control. My first thought was SI! All the good people here always know what to do.
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
aLadypilot ( member #1822) posted at 12:47 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Love this!
[This message edited by aLadypilot at 6:47 PM, April 22nd (Monday)]
Divorced 9/2010
Just married 7/4/13
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 1:47 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Once I had myself fully convinced that there was a man standing in front of the door in the back of my bedroom. I laid there half asleep trying to pretend I was sleeping for like an hour before enough light came in the window for me to realize it was just a pair of jeans hanging on a hook
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 3:00 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
LOL! That's awesome.
I wonder what our advice would have been? Leave the bear? Or give him a chance to prove himself worthy of being on your bed?
Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Rec'd.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi
k94ever ( member #11176) posted at 1:12 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
The bear would have to give up ALL it's passwords and attend IC to find out what was broken inside it that it allowed it to crawl in your bed and sleep with you.
k9
BS:61
WS: 53
Betrayed: 24 years
Affairs: 15 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 3:04 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 8:10 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
painpaingoaway ( member #27196) posted at 12:46 AM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013
Haha! Sister, you crack me up.
But guess what? There really is a bear in my bed every.single.night. Yep, he's that hairy. 
D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk
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