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Same situation here, WH lives with OW and is now a daddy to her 10 yr old son, whose own father has never been a part of sons life, and then there is OW's 19 yr old daughter who also doesnt have much of relationship with her dad (different father) WH and I have 2 children, son is now almost 23 and recently had a child of his own, who WH has yet to see, WH and son have seen each other once in the last 16 months, and no texts or phone calls between them. Our daughter is 15 and hardly sees her dad and has told OW off about it (posted in "OW is delusional") WH has said to me that DD only calls when she wants money whereas i said that is all you are to her now!!!! He couldnt even come out to see her volleyball games in February because of the OW, he said she wanted to go too and he didnt want to bring her but instead of telling the OW NO, my daughter is the one that was dissapointed. An affair doesnt just affect the WH, BS and the OW, the kids are cheated on too, they are abandoned and if the OW has kids, its like they have been replaced too. The OW in my case even has a photo of my WH and her son on her fb which my children have seen and daughter sent her a nasty message about it too

This is so unfair to everyone, especially the children, so much heartache for them too

Same situation here, WH lives with OW and is now a daddy to her 10 yr old son, whose own father has never been a part of sons life, and then there is OW's 19 yr old daughter who also doesnt have much of relationship with her dad (different father)  WH and I have 2 children, son is now almost 23 and recently had a child of his own, who WH has yet to see, WH and son have seen each other once in the last 16 months, and no texts or phone calls between them.  Our daughter is 15 and hardly sees her dad and has told OW off about it (posted in "OW is delusional")  WH has said to me that DD only calls when she wants money whereas i said that is all you are to her now!!!!  He couldnt even come out to see her volleyball games in February because of the OW, he said she wanted to go too and he didnt want to bring her but instead of telling the OW NO, my daughter is the one that was dissapointed.  An affair doesnt just affect the WH, BS and the OW, the kids are cheated on too, they are abandoned and if the OW has kids, its like they have been replaced too.  The OW in my case even has a photo of my WH and her son on her fb which my children have seen and daughter sent her a nasty message about it too

This is so unfair to everyone, especially the children, so much heartache for them too