This may sound like a silly question, but I have to ask because I really don't know.
Does R ever "end", so to speak? Or are you always in R, so long as you're still with your same WS? I know if you move on to another relationship you are no longer in R, but if you decide to stay with your WS and do R, do you ever, like, 'complete' R? Or are you always in R? Kind of like a drug addict who quits drugs is always in "recovery" for the rest of his/her life. Well, is it the same for a couple who does R?
Another piece to why I'm wondering is because I've told myself that if my WS and I are going to have another child, I don't want to be 'dealing with' the A anymore. I want it to be completely a thing of the past (provided there are no A relapses, lies, etc.). So, if you are always in R, is it ever really all behind you and in the past?
Any and all comments/advice more than welcome!
Thanks so much!