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 mariusa (original poster member #13541) posted at 2:26 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013

am I going to wake up from this nightmare?

That still runs through my head even 6 1/2 years later.

WTF??

BS(me)45 now 48, WH (POS)45 now 48
M 24trs, DD14, DS15
POS OW - then 24, now doesn't matter
D-day 1/2/07, Divorced 11/13/08
“Live without pretending, Love without depending, Listen without defending, Speak without offending."

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cayc ( member #21964) posted at 2:45 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013

(((mariusa)))

I know the feeling. No matter what, this tragedy is hanging out at the edges of my mind. And when I'm struggling with something that is happening in the present, it makes it worse. Is there something going on that's making you feel this way?

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Survivor3512 ( member #37946) posted at 3:36 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013

(((Mariusa))) I'm sorry you're feeling down.

Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie

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 mariusa (original poster member #13541) posted at 3:57 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013

I'm drowning in debt. Both houses have been on the market for pretty much years now. I stand to loose them both. Had a showing on the big one and got such crappy feedback that feels like its in left field.

i feel so helpless and aline. No energy to keep struggling to breath. To keep the happy face for my kids.

BS(me)45 now 48, WH (POS)45 now 48
M 24trs, DD14, DS15
POS OW - then 24, now doesn't matter
D-day 1/2/07, Divorced 11/13/08
“Live without pretending, Love without depending, Listen without defending, Speak without offending."

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fadedrainbow ( member #9280) posted at 8:27 PM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013

(((mariusa))) I am so sorry that things are difficult for you.

me: FBW D-Day May 2005 divorced December 2009

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 8:51 PM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013

(((mariusa)))

I'm sorry you are struggling. I hope things get better soon.

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permanentpain ( member #38312) posted at 10:56 PM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013

((mariusa))

Me: 32 y/o, student and mom of two of the best kids in the world
Him: 33 y/o scumbag
Divorcing
Feels good to start laughing and feeling better again...

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 11:39 PM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013

((((mariusa)))) Sending you major mojo for something to give on the houses. The market is starting to move again. I hope it will pick up for you soon.

Hang in there, honey.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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 mariusa (original poster member #13541) posted at 12:16 AM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013

OMG!! Would you beleive i totaled my car yesterday??

I still can't.

I'm lucky I'm ok. Just a little banged up. And I did catch a guy with warrants out for his arrest....

But i loved that car. The first one I picked out and bought on my own. It had everything I wanted plus it was so cute!

Another showing tomorrow....sigh! PLEASE SELL!!

BS(me)45 now 48, WH (POS)45 now 48
M 24trs, DD14, DS15
POS OW - then 24, now doesn't matter
D-day 1/2/07, Divorced 11/13/08
“Live without pretending, Love without depending, Listen without defending, Speak without offending."

posts: 2062   ·   registered: Feb. 4th, 2007   ·   location: NY
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Survivor3512 ( member #37946) posted at 12:28 AM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013

Mariusa, I am so glad you are ok. That sucks about your car. Maybe you can get another good one with the insurance money. And I'm praying that something gives with your houses!! Hang in there!

Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie

posts: 293   ·   registered: Dec. 30th, 2012   ·   location: Southeastern U.S.
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gogirl ( member #26870) posted at 5:46 PM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013

Oh my, I too am glad you are ok. How scary!

Good wishes to you for selling your houses.

(((mariusa)))



It's never too late to live happily ever after.

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