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Topic: Tonight I don't want to be
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turned123
♂ 33663
Member # 33663 |  Posted: 8:35 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013 |     |
Alone! I don't want to drop the kids at their moms so they can sit there alone! I don't want to be a divorced dad! I don't want to date! I don't want it all!
That is all 
me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids
Posts: 334 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: milwaukee |
Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134 |  Posted: 8:49 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013 | |
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 6040 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida |
Survivor3512
♀ 37946
Member # 37946 | | Posted: 8:51 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013 | |
(((Turned))) I'm so sorry. I know just how you feel. It's really hard sometimes. We're here to listen.
Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie
Posts: 293 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Southeastern U.S. |
turned123
♂ 33663
Member # 33663 | | Posted: 8:59 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013 | |
I truly am better off with out the day to day toxic environment the exww provided so well but I'm sad today that my kids had to leave my house tonight to go sit alone at their mothers. She sucks! I'm just tired and grumpy today so my discipline suffers. Then the fuck her!! Comes out! Ugh! Soo not me!
me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids
Posts: 334 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: milwaukee |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 9:06 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013 | |
(((turned)))
I'm sorry. I hope tomorrow is a better day. Sending you strength.
Posts: 38287 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
turned123
♂ 33663
Member # 33663 | | Posted: 9:13 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013 | |
Thanks gang! I love the sunrise!! Nothing has gone wrong yet  tomorrow will be better! Praying for a good night sleep!!
me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids
Posts: 334 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: milwaukee |
gogirl
♀ 26870
Member # 26870 | | Posted: 9:21 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013 | |
Hugs to you turned123.
I know the feeling, but you have a wonderful attitude and that will get you through. That, and time, the dreaded word.
Sleep can be very difficult sometimes. I too hope you have a good night.
It's never too late to live happily ever after.
Posts: 572 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: North |
Mousse242
♀ 6330
Member # 6330 | | Posted: 9:53 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013 | |
She's not there with the kids? How old are they?
Posts: 5473 | Registered: Jan 2005 | From: Chicago |
mariusa
♀ 13541
Member # 13541 | | Posted: 10:01 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013 | |
I understand the feeling. So hard sometimes to keep the chin up.
i don't know what to say to help but i hear ya!!
BS(me)45 now 48, WH (POS)45 now 48
M 24trs, DD14, DS15
POS OW - then 24, now doesn't matter
D-day 1/2/07, Divorced 11/13/08
“Live without pretending, Love without depending, Listen without defending, Speak without offending."
Posts: 2059 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: NY |
turned123
♂ 33663
Member # 33663 | | Posted: 10:02 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013 | |
14,10&10. They are left alone often at their moms as she can't figure out the right thing to do is adjust your schedule around them not just do what you want when! They are safe. I don't mine leaving them alone ounce in awhile but it's a regular thing with her.
me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids
Posts: 334 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: milwaukee |
BrokenSpirit50
♀ 34485
Member # 34485 | | Posted: 10:11 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013 | |
Turned123, Arrgghhh, I'm sorry your XWW is a wench. Your kids are old enough to figure her deal out.
At least you have us SIers hanging with you. Hoping the sun rises for you tomorrow morning and its a beautiful day...Hmmm I don't think that is in our weather forecast. Oh well.
Me BS 54
Him WH 55
M 32 yrs - together 40 yrs
Kids 0
D-Day 12-18-11 (WH didn't want to R)
Divorced 6-21-12 Done!
If the grass is greener on the other side....water your own lawn.
Posts: 240 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Midwest |
Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349 | | Posted: 10:13 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013 | |
(((turned123)))
"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron
Posts: 20869 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California |
homewrecked2011
♀ 34678
Member # 34678 | | Posted: 10:30 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013 | |
Are you divorced?
I got in my papers that I have the first right of refusal if they are going to be left with someone or alone for more than 4 hours I get to have them.
If you are D, maybe you can see about getting it added to your decree.
Keep Calm and Happy On!
me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed
Posts: 2461 | Registered: Jan 2012 |
turned123
♂ 33663
Member # 33663 | | Posted: 10:37 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013 | |
Yep divorced a few years now. Mostly life is good. At times I just get frustrated as this isn't the life I wanted for these children! I love them and envisioned soo much more for them! I will make do with what I have. Tomorrow is another day. I will use it as an opportunity to make a difference in their lives as well as at work. Tonight though I'm just ticked! Double ugh!
me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids
Posts: 334 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: milwaukee |
okaynow
♀ 13813
Member # 13813 | | Posted: 10:42 PM, April 22nd (Monday), 2013 | |
(((turned123)))
Married 18 yrs, together 25+.
D-day: 2/18/07.
1 child
The story doesn't really matter anymore. Time is a great healer. Life is good.
Posts: 2436 | Registered: Mar 2007 |
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