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turned123 (original poster member #33663) posted at 2:35 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Alone! I don't want to drop the kids at their moms so they can sit there alone! I don't want to be a divorced dad! I don't want to date! I don't want it all!
That is all 
me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 2:49 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Survivor3512 ( member #37946) posted at 2:51 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
(((Turned))) I'm so sorry. I know just how you feel. It's really hard sometimes. We're here to listen.
Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie
turned123 (original poster member #33663) posted at 2:59 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
I truly am better off with out the day to day toxic environment the exww provided so well but I'm sad today that my kids had to leave my house tonight to go sit alone at their mothers. She sucks! I'm just tired and grumpy today so my discipline suffers. Then the fuck her!! Comes out! Ugh! Soo not me!
me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 3:06 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
(((turned)))
I'm sorry. I hope tomorrow is a better day. Sending you strength.
turned123 (original poster member #33663) posted at 3:13 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Thanks gang! I love the sunrise!! Nothing has gone wrong yet 
tomorrow will be better! Praying for a good night sleep!!
me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids
gogirl ( member #26870) posted at 3:21 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Hugs to you turned123.
I know the feeling, but you have a wonderful attitude and that will get you through. That, and time, the dreaded word.
Sleep can be very difficult sometimes. I too hope you have a good night.
It's never too late to live happily ever after.
Mousse242 ( member #6330) posted at 3:53 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
She's not there with the kids? How old are they?
mariusa ( member #13541) posted at 4:01 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
I understand the feeling. So hard sometimes to keep the chin up.
i don't know what to say to help but i hear ya!!
BS(me)45 now 48, WH (POS)45 now 48
M 24trs, DD14, DS15
POS OW - then 24, now doesn't matter
D-day 1/2/07, Divorced 11/13/08
“Live without pretending, Love without depending, Listen without defending, Speak without offending."
turned123 (original poster member #33663) posted at 4:02 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
14,10&10. They are left alone often at their moms as she can't figure out the right thing to do is adjust your schedule around them not just do what you want when! They are safe. I don't mine leaving them alone ounce in awhile but it's a regular thing with her.
me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids
BrokenSpirit50 ( member #34485) posted at 4:11 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Turned123, Arrgghhh, I'm sorry your XWW is a wench. Your kids are old enough to figure her deal out.
At least you have us SIers hanging with you. Hoping the sun rises for you tomorrow morning and its a beautiful day...Hmmm I don't think that is in our weather forecast. Oh well.
Married 32 years, together for 40
DDay Dec. 17, 2011
No R, D June 21, 2012
Me BS 58
Him WH 59
Now with WBF 3 yrs. DD#2 June 5, 2018
Truth is like surgery, it hurts but heals. A Lie is like a painkiller. It gives instant relief but has si
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 4:13 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 4:30 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Are you divorced?
I got in my papers that I have the first right of refusal if they are going to be left with someone or alone for more than 4 hours I get to have them.
If you are D, maybe you can see about getting it added to your decree.
Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55
turned123 (original poster member #33663) posted at 4:37 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Yep divorced a few years now. Mostly life is good. At times I just get frustrated as this isn't the life I wanted for these children! I love them and envisioned soo much more for them! I will make do with what I have. Tomorrow is another day. I will use it as an opportunity to make a difference in their lives as well as at work. Tonight though I'm just ticked! Double ugh!
me BS 48
her WW 45
married 15 years
divorced
3 wonderful but hurt kids
okaynow ( member #13813) posted at 4:42 AM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Married 18 yrs, together 25+.
D-day: 2/18/07.
1 child
The story doesn't really matter anymore. Time is a great healer. Life is good.
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