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turned123 posted 4/22/2013 20:35 PM

Alone! I don't want to drop the kids at their moms so they can sit there alone! I don't want to be a divorced dad! I don't want to date! I don't want it all!

That is all

Kajem posted 4/22/2013 20:49 PM

((((((turned123)))))

Survivor3512 posted 4/22/2013 20:51 PM

(((Turned))) I'm so sorry. I know just how you feel. It's really hard sometimes. We're here to listen.

turned123 posted 4/22/2013 20:59 PM

I truly am better off with out the day to day toxic environment the exww provided so well but I'm sad today that my kids had to leave my house tonight to go sit alone at their mothers. She sucks! I'm just tired and grumpy today so my discipline suffers. Then the fuck her!! Comes out! Ugh! Soo not me!

jo2love posted 4/22/2013 21:06 PM

(((turned)))

I'm sorry. I hope tomorrow is a better day. Sending you strength.

turned123 posted 4/22/2013 21:13 PM

Thanks gang! I love the sunrise!! Nothing has gone wrong yet tomorrow will be better! Praying for a good night sleep!!

gogirl posted 4/22/2013 21:21 PM

Hugs to you turned123.

I know the feeling, but you have a wonderful attitude and that will get you through. That, and time, the dreaded word.

Sleep can be very difficult sometimes. I too hope you have a good night.

Mousse242 posted 4/22/2013 21:53 PM

She's not there with the kids? How old are they?

mariusa posted 4/22/2013 22:01 PM

I understand the feeling. So hard sometimes to keep the chin up.
i don't know what to say to help but i hear ya!!

turned123 posted 4/22/2013 22:02 PM

14,10&10. They are left alone often at their moms as she can't figure out the right thing to do is adjust your schedule around them not just do what you want when! They are safe. I don't mine leaving them alone ounce in awhile but it's a regular thing with her.

BrokenSpirit50 posted 4/22/2013 22:11 PM

Turned123, Arrgghhh, I'm sorry your XWW is a wench. Your kids are old enough to figure her deal out.

At least you have us SIers hanging with you. Hoping the sun rises for you tomorrow morning and its a beautiful day...Hmmm I don't think that is in our weather forecast. Oh well.

Jrazz posted 4/22/2013 22:13 PM

(((turned123)))

homewrecked2011 posted 4/22/2013 22:30 PM

Are you divorced?

I got in my papers that I have the first right of refusal if they are going to be left with someone or alone for more than 4 hours I get to have them.

If you are D, maybe you can see about getting it added to your decree.

turned123 posted 4/22/2013 22:37 PM

Yep divorced a few years now. Mostly life is good. At times I just get frustrated as this isn't the life I wanted for these children! I love them and envisioned soo much more for them! I will make do with what I have. Tomorrow is another day. I will use it as an opportunity to make a difference in their lives as well as at work. Tonight though I'm just ticked! Double ugh!

okaynow posted 4/22/2013 22:42 PM

(((turned123)))