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Notgwen posted 4/23/2013 06:47 AM

Anyone else feel like they are waiting for "the other shoe to drop?"
I find that I cannot be "happy" because I'm just waiting for the next thing to pop up and show me he is still lying.
Does this get better????

HURTAGAIN1981 posted 4/23/2013 07:15 AM

Hi, I know how you are feeling. I know my partner has been up to something and still is. I am now waiting for an opportunity to check his phone. I am 99% sure I will find damning evidence.

tushnurse posted 4/23/2013 07:43 AM

Yes I think we all feel that way, esp at the beginning or if the Wayward remains in the fog. It takes a very long time for that trust to build up again, that is human nature. You don't want to allow yourself to be hurt that badly again.

(((( and strength ))))

HeartInADustpan posted 4/23/2013 08:02 AM

Daily for the first few months. Now, I only get the occasional pang. It does get better, just very slowly.

(((hugs))

Hang in there.

Notgwen posted 4/23/2013 11:13 AM

And...he is replacing his cell phone today or tomorrow so my anxiety is back.
Wow, I love this!!!!

Chefj9 posted 4/23/2013 11:33 AM

Everyday, "you're not alone". I have nothing to base it on.... Just feel like that's the story of my life.

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