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Mack9512 posted 4/23/2013 06:58 AM

my WH asked me to marry him again. I told him that I would think about it.

Knowing posted 4/23/2013 07:38 AM

Awww, how nice. I'd consider a vow renewal at some point, but not until I felt entirely safe and was certain that the work of R was being undertaken.

karmahappens posted 4/23/2013 08:42 AM

Hi again Mack.

I just replied to your other post...I read that post first because I wanted to see about the "marriage proposal".

I am not familiar with your story, but is your dday recent? Him asking you to marry you following your "bump in the road" seems to be kind-of rug-sweepish to me. Is he looking to woo you into thinking everything is ok?

I am all for R...long happy R's, but it makes me nervous when someone (WS or BS) jumps into the "future" without really healing the past.

(((hugs)))

Mack9512 posted 4/23/2013 09:39 AM

Karma,

The proposal came before my spam discovery, just posted about the spam first.

We are not renewing our vows anytime soon. Obviously, since we haven't been in R that long my trust in him needs to grow, a lot before any new vows are taken. We have talked about an informal 're-commitment' ceremony though to solidify our commitment to R.

After the last DDay our R has been going really, really well and at times I wondered it if was going 'too' well as per the title of my other post. I expected bumps in the road and I'm kind of glad it happened. I figure if we can get through this with our love and respect intact we will be ready for the next bump and maybe even some boulders.

karmahappens posted 4/23/2013 09:45 AM

I figure if we can get through this with our love and respect intact we will be ready for the next bump and maybe even some boulders.

Nice :) I wish you continued success and hopefully you can avoid the boulders, they can be a bitch

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