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Topic: Ding Ding! That round went to nmk!
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nutmegkitty
♀ 33882
Member # 33882 |  Posted: 9:26 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 |     |
So, I responded to NOTHING from the ex over the weekend.
Monday morning I get an email saying that he had "clarified with his attorney the issue of paying CS on vacation weeks." And that he would pay the money he owes me for the home repairs.
2 weeks of CS went into the account yesterday morning.
YES! I stood up to the bully and didn't back down! Take that, you JAMF.
me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC
Divorced 1/17/2013
"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."
Posts: 2951 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA |
Lyonesse
♀ 32943
Member # 32943 |  Posted: 9:29 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Hooray!!!
I had my money on you, anyway.  You handled it great. Ah, the sweet smell of victory. [This message edited by Lyonesse at 9:30 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday)]
Me: BS, 40's.
Posts: 1943 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast |
Lola2kids
♀ 32789
Member # 32789 | | Posted: 9:30 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Oh that must feel good!
Fantastic!!
Do you have the kids back as well? [This message edited by Lola2kids at 9:30 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday)]
BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"
Posts: 1812 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada |
Amazonia
♀ 32810
Member # 32810 | | Posted: 9:37 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
You go girl! 
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Posts: 14422 | Registered: Jul 2011 |
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554 | | Posted: 10:07 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Yay for you!
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
Posts: 10722 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA |
ButterflyGirl
♀ 38377
Member # 38377 | | Posted: 10:47 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Congrats! Thanks for sharing! 
xBW~ 37
Two DS~ 9 and 12
Posts: 3076 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA |
dmari
♀ 37215
Member # 37215 | | Posted: 11:09 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
YES!!!!! Thank you for the update!!!!
I SURVIVED infidelity. Me 45, DD 21, DS 17
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."
Posts: 2841 | Registered: Oct 2012 |
nutmegkitty
♀ 33882
Member # 33882 | | Posted: 12:05 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Yep, kids are back and all is well.
me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC
Divorced 1/17/2013
"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."
Posts: 2951 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 12:07 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Take that, you JAMF. A.MEN.
Way to go, nutmeg!!!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Posts: 37266 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
Kajem
♀ 36134
Member # 36134 | | Posted: 12:12 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 6679 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida |
FirstLoveGone
♀ 25957
Member # 25957 | | Posted: 12:13 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
You're my hero!
Posts: 1326 | Registered: Oct 2009 |
Crescita
♀ 32616
Member # 32616 | | Posted: 12:27 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Bwhahaha, the best is that he is paying someone to tell him to quit being a shit, and he didn't even get a rise out of you for his troubles.
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
Posts: 3636 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun |
betrayedfriend
♀ 19785
Member # 19785 | | Posted: 12:40 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
You my dear NMK, are my hero! Great Job!
I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.
Posts: 999 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA |
devistatedmom
♀ 24961
Member # 24961 | | Posted: 2:37 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Fantastic!
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
Posts: 5896 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada |
Take2
♀ 23890
Member # 23890 | | Posted: 5:23 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?
Posts: 4430 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England |
AussieMum
♀ 36579
Member # 36579 | | Posted: 6:32 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Must feel GREAT!
Me 47
ExH 51
EA Jun-Aug 12 (OW1)FB flirting and then EA/PA with OW2 (Aug-Dec 12). New OW Jan 13, introduced her to the kids immediately.
Married 10 years, together 14yrs
2 kids (DS13 & DD8)
Separated Jan 13. Divorced Jun 14
Posts: 185 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia |
h0peless
♂ 36697
Member # 36697 | | Posted: 6:58 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Awesome job. Ask him for a list of ways that he's going to go fuck himself.
Posts: 2739 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona |
tesla
♀ 34697
Member # 34697 | | Posted: 7:54 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Awesome!!!
Way to go
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Posts: 4958 | Registered: Jan 2012 |
ruinedandbroken
♀ 29250
Member # 29250 | | Posted: 8:32 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Woo Hoo!!! You go with your bad self!
“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 8&11
Married 14 yrs Together 21
Posts: 1622 | Registered: Aug 2010 |
homewrecked2011
♀ 34678
Member # 34678 | | Posted: 8:41 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013 | |
YAY!!!!!
Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child.
Dday 12/19/11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!
D final10/30/2012
Me-55
Posts: 3380 | Registered: Jan 2012 |
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