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nutmegkitty (original poster member #33882) posted at 3:26 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
So, I responded to NOTHING from the ex over the weekend.
Monday morning I get an email saying that he had "clarified with his attorney the issue of paying CS on vacation weeks." And that he would pay the money he owes me for the home repairs.
2 weeks of CS went into the account yesterday morning.
YES! I stood up to the bully and didn't back down! Take that, you JAMF.
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
Lyonesse ( member #32943) posted at 3:29 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Hooray!!!
I had my money on you, anyway. 
You handled it great. Ah, the sweet smell of victory.
[This message edited by Lyonesse at 9:30 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday)]
Lola2kids ( member #32789) posted at 3:30 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Oh that must feel good!
Fantastic!!
Do you have the kids back as well?
[This message edited by Lola2kids at 9:30 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday)]
BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 3:37 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
You go girl! 
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 4:07 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 4:47 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Congrats! Thanks for sharing! 
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 5:09 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
YES!!!!! Thank you for the update!!!!
nutmegkitty (original poster member #33882) posted at 6:05 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Yep, kids are back and all is well.
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:07 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Take that, you JAMF.
A.MEN.
Way to go, nutmeg!!!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 6:12 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
FirstLoveGone ( member #25957) posted at 6:13 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Crescita ( member #32616) posted at 6:27 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Bwhahaha, the best is that he is paying someone to tell him to quit being a shit, and he didn't even get a rise out of you for his troubles.
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
betrayedfriend ( member #19785) posted at 6:40 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
You my dear NMK, are my hero! Great Job!
I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.
devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 8:37 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
Fantastic!
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
Take2 ( member #23890) posted at 11:23 PM on Tuesday, April 23rd, 2013
"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?
AussieMum ( member #36579) posted at 12:32 AM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013
Me 47
ExH 51
EA Jun-Aug 12 (OW1)FB flirting and then EA/PA with OW2 (Aug-Dec 12). New OW Jan 13, introduced her to the kids immediately.
Married 10 years, together 14yrs
2 kids (DS13 & DD8)
Separated Jan 13. Divorced Jun 14
h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 12:58 AM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013
Awesome job. Ask him for a list of ways that he's going to go fuck himself.
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 1:54 AM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013
Awesome!!!
Way to go
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
ruinedandbroken ( member #29250) posted at 2:32 AM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013
Woo Hoo!!! You go with your bad self!
“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 8&11
Married 14 yrs Together 21
homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 2:41 AM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013
Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55
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