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User Topic: Ding Ding! That round went to nmk!
nutmegkitty
♀ 33882
Member # 33882
Exclaimation  Posted: 9:26 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, I responded to NOTHING from the ex over the weekend.

Monday morning I get an email saying that he had "clarified with his attorney the issue of paying CS on vacation weeks." And that he would pay the money he owes me for the home repairs.

2 weeks of CS went into the account yesterday morning.

YES! I stood up to the bully and didn't back down! Take that, you JAMF.


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2624 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
Lyonesse
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Member # 32943
Default  Posted: 9:29 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hooray!!!

I had my money on you, anyway. You handled it great. Ah, the sweet smell of victory.

[This message edited by Lyonesse at 9:30 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday)]


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1811 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
Lola2kids
♀ 32789
Member # 32789
Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh that must feel good!

Fantastic!!

Do you have the kids back as well?

[This message edited by Lola2kids at 9:30 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday)]


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1479 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
Amazonia
♀ 32810
Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You go girl!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13934 | Registered: Jul 2011
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 10:07 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay for you!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10154 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
ButterflyGirl
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Member # 38377
Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats! Thanks for sharing!


xBW~ 35
Two DS~ 7-Eleven
"I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know." ~ asurvivor

Posts: 2724 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
dmari
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Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 11:09 AM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YES!!!!! Thank you for the update!!!!


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

Posts: 2339 | Registered: Oct 2012
nutmegkitty
♀ 33882
Member # 33882
Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep, kids are back and all is well.


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2624 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 12:07 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Take that, you JAMF.
A.MEN.

Way to go, nutmeg!!!


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26545 | Registered: Aug 2011
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome job!!!!

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5746 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
FirstLoveGone
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're my hero!

Posts: 1278 | Registered: Oct 2009
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 12:27 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bwhahaha, the best is that he is paying someone to tell him to quit being a shit, and he didn't even get a rise out of you for his troubles.


“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Posts: 3578 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 12:40 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You my dear NMK, are my hero! Great Job!


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

Posts: 888 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
devistatedmom
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Member # 24961
Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fantastic!


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5633 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
Take2
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Member # 23890
Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4171 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
AussieMum
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Default  Posted: 6:32 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Must feel GREAT!


Me 47
ExH 51
EA Jun-Aug 12 (OW1)FB flirting and then EA/PA with OW2 (Aug-Dec 12). New OW Jan 13, introduced her to the kids immediately.
Married 10 years, together 14yrs
2 kids (DS13 & DD8)
Separated Jan 13. Divorced Jun 14

Posts: 183 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
h0peless
♂ 36697
Member # 36697
Default  Posted: 6:58 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome job. Ask him for a list of ways that he's going to go fuck himself.

Posts: 1852 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
tesla
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Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!!!
Way to go


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4835 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
ruinedandbroken
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Member # 29250
Default  Posted: 8:32 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo Hoo!!! You go with your bad self!


“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 6&9
Married 14 yrs Together 21

Posts: 1575 | Registered: Aug 2010
homewrecked2011
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Member # 34678
Default  Posted: 8:41 PM, April 23rd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY!!!!!


Keep Calm and Happy On!

me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed


Posts: 2391 | Registered: Jan 2012
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