Well....my STBXH in his infinite wisdom decided that this past weekend he would introduce my 15 year to his slut face girlfriend! We do not even have our divorce papers filed yet! He has his own apartment and apparently the love birds have been parading around her town as a couple already and now are bringing closer to me and my family. My 18 year had her prom to go to Saturday. My youngest was to spend the night with STBXH. It wasn't his weekend - should have known he was up to something!!! He doesn't just offer to help on a regular basis. Go figure!!!
I got wind thru a mom of one of my daughters friends about the upcoming sleepover introduction party! I called my STBXH and confronted about this Saturday morning. He said our 15 year old asked to meet slut face and he told her it was fine with him, he would bring her to town and SHE had to tell me about what was going on. Of course, my daughter knew how painful that would be and never said anything. She was going to hide it from me I guess. When I confronted her about it she began crying and said she felt guilty and just couldn't bring herself to do it. I explained that I realized that she would eventually meet this woman but her FATHER should have been the one to have the discussion with me. He sent his 15 year old daughter to deliver this heartbreaking news to me!!!!! What a giant asshole. He let her carry around this information and guilt for one week!!!
When I confronted him on the phone I told him this was a conversation for him to have with me. There would be no overnight visits with him as long as slut face was there. He and I are still husband and wife and it is disrespectful to do to me in front of our daughter!!!!
Now....my 18 year old is getting ready for her prom and she and her sister are fighting, calling each other bitches because the oldest cannot understand for the life of her why her sister would want to meet slut face! Lots of name calling, yelling, crying. I worked so hard to help her get the dress, shoes, makeup, bra, hair done, limo.....and we couldn't even enjoy the day because STBXH decided to pick prom weekend for this crap!!! Only thinking of himself again!!!!!!! What a freakin jackass. My house was torn upside down all weekend long and boiled over into yesterday.
I called my in-laws and told them what their son was doing and that I could not take one more thing from him. I don't care who knows what kind of asshole he really is. I am not putting up with any more hurt from this stupid man.
No more phone calls, he is no longer invited into the house, he is DEAD to me!