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Jack317 (original poster new member #39010) posted at 4:08 PM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013
Last night BS asked me to get off the computer, as it was causing a sever trigger. I did. Then later in the evening, I got on it again. Again, she asked me to get off. I became defensive, and told her she should be over it by now. I felt 6 inches tall. I really hurt her. Anyone else experience anything like this?
BaxtersBFF ( member #26859) posted at 5:37 PM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013
Sorry you had a rough night. Why did you get defensive?
You're going to be leaving soon right? Is that making your time on the computer more of a trigger than it might otherwise have been?
Apple3point14 ( member #39035) posted at 5:38 PM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013
About 1 month after d-day my bs told me I killed her. I told her she was being dramatic. I may never forgive myself for that. I have learned and grown since then, but wow.
Apple3point14 ( member #39035) posted at 5:42 PM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013
I try very hard to recognize and predict my wifes triggers and do everything I can to NOT do them. You should look at why you knowingly did what she told you would trigger her.
I don't want to cause my wife anymore pain.
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Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 7:34 PM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013
told her she should be over it by now.
Not only do you destroy your BS's heart, but you also get to dictate when she should be over it?
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
Unagie ( member #37091) posted at 9:10 PM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013
WS Only
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