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Jeyana posted 4/24/2013 11:10 AM

Its lunch time, I'm sitting in my car, and OW1 is but 3 cars away from me..sitting there..doing nothing, she has drove off once, and then came back to the exact sopt again, there are plenty other spots. This is the MOW who continues to lie to her husband that anything ever happened. I'm shaking, I'm playing senarios, she should be very afraid of me...wtf is she thinking?

Extirpated posted 4/24/2013 11:12 AM

Sorry you're going through this - she is trying to get under your skin. As hard as is it, stand your ground and don't let her see you sweat!

SisterMilkshake posted 4/24/2013 11:18 AM

If we were in General I feel I could be a lot more help in talking you down, Jeyana.

I am not quite sure of your whole situation, though. Has the OW1's BH been informed and he just chooses to not believe?

I see you are in the Reconciliation forum so I will assume you are reconciling? Did your WH write OW1 a NC letter?

She realizes she is irrelevant now so is doing anything and everything to try to be relevant. Also, the strategy of the OW in our situation was to try to continue to hurt me and be a thorn in my side so I would finally give up on FWH and leave him. OW thought it would be able to swoop in and collect its prize!

dameia posted 4/24/2013 11:44 AM

Don't confront her!!!

If you really feel the need to do something, give her a big smile and a wave. It will mess with her mind.

MandoBando posted 4/24/2013 12:22 PM

A big grin and a wink!! Actually, just ignore. It made OW#3 bonkers when I just ignored her when we had a surprise run in. She thought I was stalking her! Lolololol!

Jeyana posted 4/24/2013 14:02 PM

Her BH is a friend of mine, I did tell him, she does nothing but deny. She is the only person in this mess still denying. Her BH is just going through the motions for his kids before he makes a move.

Jeyana posted 4/24/2013 17:01 PM

I made it through it without having a psycho moment, had to let her BH know what I found out yesterday though, his wife's sister and a family friend new about all of it. BH later came to me and told me that he left his phone at home and she had gone through it and she saw a couple texts between us. Him asking the old phone number of my Wexfiance to crosscheck bills. He said that she is saying he is evil etc etc...up to no good..blah blah. No wonder she was just sitting there. Wonder if she was realy going to try to say something to me. Seems like projection. She must be going crazy with the what
if's. Her BH is a stand up guy who has ridgid boundaries. Extremely careful of crossing lines. I am the same way.

Jeyana posted 4/24/2013 17:01 PM

I made it through it without having a psycho moment, had to let her BH know what I found out yesterday though, his wife's sister and a family friend new about all of it. BH later came to me and told me that he left his phone at home and she had gone through it and she saw a couple texts between us. Him asking the old phone number of my Wexfiance to crosscheck bills. He said that she is saying he is evil etc etc...up to no good..blah blah. No wonder she was just sitting there. Wonder if she was realy going to try to say something to me. Seems like projection. She must be going crazy with the what
if's. Her BH is a stand up guy who has ridgid boundaries. Extremely careful of crossing lines. I am the same way.

hopefulmother posted 4/25/2013 10:04 AM

Maybe he told his WW that he was having an A with you to get even?

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