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BaxtersBFF
♂ 26859
Member # 26859 |  Posted: 10:28 PM, April 24th (Wednesday), 2013 |     |
Tonight is our 20th wedding anniversary.
Six years ago I made some horrible choices. And tonight we spent our 20th out bowling with our two kids. It was the perfect evening. One that even a couple years ago I wasn't sure I would see.
To all the WS out there...stick with it. Do the work. Days like this are what makes me realize that it is worth the fight. Not just the fight for yourself, but the fight for those who have helped make you who you are, or who you can be, if you choose to do the work.
Gerrygirl, I'm so sorry for what I put you through, but I'm so happy for where we are at today. Thank you for having faith in me, and in us. I love you.
BaxtersBFF
WH - 46 (crap...)
BW - gerrygirl
Posts: 6114 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Tri-Cities |
cinnamongurl
♀ 37879
Member # 37879 | | Posted: 10:31 PM, April 24th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Thank you Baxters! This warms my soul! Happy 20 to you both!
Me: FWSO 38 He: FBSO 38 and my heart
Together 20 years. We survived infidelity. "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos
Posts: 611 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: by the sea with my love |
badchoice
♂ 35566
Member # 35566 | | Posted: 11:04 PM, April 24th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
So nice to read this.
Happy 20th!
Me: fWH/BH 46
Separated transitioning to D
Posts: 730 | Registered: May 2012 | From: L.A. |
tired girl
♀ 28053
Member # 28053 | | Posted: 11:11 PM, April 24th (Wednesday), 2013 | |
Congratulations to both of you tonight and Happy Anniversary.
Always nice to see a positive post.
Me 47 Him 47 Hardlessons
DS 27,25,23
D Day's becoming less important as time moves on.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
Posts: 7377 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Inside my head |
wifehad5
♂ 15162
Member # 15162 | | Posted: 3:28 AM, April 25th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Happy 20th
FBH - 45
FWW - 46 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 10 & 15
The people you do your life with shape the life you live
Posts: 45968 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan |
authenticnow
♀ 16024
Member # 16024 | | Posted: 5:22 AM, April 25th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Happy 20th Anniversary, Baxter and Gerrygirl!
“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown
Posts: 54941 | Registered: Sep 2007 |
Darkness Falls
♀ 27879
Member # 27879 | | Posted: 9:01 AM, April 25th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Happy anniversary!
WS, 5-month EA/PA '09-'10
Divorced from (2010) and remarried to (2014) XBH
1-year-old daughter and another baby girl on the way
Posts: 3996 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: Central Florida |
hardlessons
♂ 35025
Member # 35025 | | Posted: 9:38 AM, April 25th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Awesome BBFF & GG!
TG and I will drink some gin & juice for you!
Me WH
Wife Tired Girl
3 adult sons
"a wayward...annnnd just a tad betrayed."
Posts: 889 | Registered: Mar 2012 | From: Arizona |
SoVerySadNow
♀ 36711
Member # 36711 | | Posted: 9:42 AM, April 25th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Happy 20th! So awesome!
Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.
Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida |
Diva0702
♀ 32309
Member # 32309 | | Posted: 9:51 AM, April 25th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Oh my goodness! What a beautiful post Baxter! Gerrygirl must be overwhelmed!
Congratulations to you both on your 20th!
We celebrated our 20th last October, and your post made me cry, I'm so delighted for you all!
Me: BW 53
Him: FWH 47
4 wonderful grown children
2 beautiful grandchildren
Married 20 years
Together 23 years
Dday March 10 2010. 4 yr A.
Me: RGN(ret), N.Dip.,BA(Psych),MA (Psych),BA Music.
OW: 55 year old taxi driver
Posts: 333 | Registered: May 2011 | From: UK |
hurting7897
♀ 34761
Member # 34761 | | Posted: 9:53 AM, April 25th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Congratulations! We just celebrated our 20th as well but we are only a year out from d-day #3 so it was more tenous a celebration for us. We made it to 20; we didnt' think we would either.
Married 20 years
Me-BS-51
Him-FWH-46 "healing4us2"
2 kids, DD 12 and DS 16
D-day #1 Jan. 30,2012
D-day #2 April 12, 2012
D-day #3 April 15, 2012
June 24, 2012--Decided to R.
January 21, 2013-Forgave him! Life is sweet
May 4, 2015--T
Posts: 230 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Wisconsin |
smile_it_helps
♀ 17569
Member # 17569 | | Posted: 10:14 AM, April 25th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Congratulations!! I hope you also got a babysitter for this weekend for some alone time!
me bs
him fws
19 years
OW was my best friend
2 amazing kids
finding happiness again
separation 12/27/07
let him come back 3/25/08
Just had our 25th anniversary.
Posts: 392 | Registered: Jan 2008 |
MissesJai
♀ 24849
Member # 24849 | | Posted: 3:30 PM, April 25th (Thursday), 2013 | |
love this! Happy anniversary!
MH - 43
Separated..
Nothing left to give....
"She is clothed with strenth & dignity and she laughs without fear of the future." #BlackLivesMatter
Posts: 7407 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal..... |
heartache101
♀ 26465
Member # 26465 | | Posted: 3:34 PM, April 25th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Happy Aniversary to the both of you!!!
There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing
Posts: 3224 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Indiana |
PippaPeach6
♀ 37523
Member # 37523 | | Posted: 3:34 PM, April 25th (Thursday), 2013 | |
(((Baxter & Gerrygirl)))
Happy 20th! And to many more happy years together
Us: 50ish, madhatters, married 20 odd yrs
TT: May 2009 'til June
DDay for both: June 17, 2009
Me: 2x, same person, 1991
Him: 1.5 year PA (EA?) 2007-2009
Reconciled
Honey Badger don't care. - Randall
Posts: 386 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Flyover chic |
Aubrie
♀ 33886
Member # 33886 | | Posted: 3:37 PM, April 25th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Happy Anniversary you two.
This is the hall of mirrors. Where you will face yourself. Buckle up.
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
Posts: 7898 | Registered: Nov 2011 |
BaxtersBFF
♂ 26859
Member # 26859 | | Posted: 4:38 PM, April 25th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Thanks everyone.
WH - 46 (crap...)
BW - gerrygirl
Posts: 6114 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Tri-Cities |
Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349 | | Posted: 5:02 PM, April 25th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Awwww I just saw this. Very sweet post. Happy 20th, you two!! 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Posts: 29076 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California |
Lucky
♀ 6864
Member # 6864 | | Posted: 6:29 PM, April 25th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Happy Anniversary you two love birds
♥ WINE - the other fruit juice! ♥
Posts: 36162 | Registered: Apr 2005 |
LosferWords
♂ 30369
Member # 30369 | | Posted: 6:32 PM, April 25th (Thursday), 2013 | |
Happy Anniversary!
Posts: 30055 | Registered: Dec 2010 |
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