Oh, Hooray.
I'm really oversensitive right now, I'm told, so I worried I would make a WS annoyed-maybe I should have put a different acronym or something in the title?
NL (Neighbor Lady) has the most fantastic bitch boots too and I just don't know how she does it. She said she can't afford to care any longer or be worried about what people think.
She came the day Happy Pants left and helped me through the wee hours last year, before we even knew about OW.
She was the one who found him on Zoosk and Match.com, and the only one who told me to my face what he was really doing. Other people knew-my family members except my father-but no one had the guts to tell me but her. (She also found her BF there, too!)
So another funny part is that the BF actually FB'd Happy Pants/Perv to see if he wanted to double date!!!
They made this whole drama with Happy Pants/Perv and made so many wrong rumors that one of them was me on the dating sites!
Ironically, his reaction was one of my first glimpses of how thick his fog really is. How in the world could he be offended? Doesn't he know where he's been? I'm not meaning to rant and sorry if it sounds like it.
I think NL could probably nickname anyone who cheated, it's kind of a hobby of hers.
She was pretty amazing because of her level of acceptance and how quickly it came. She gave Starshine another try and he blew it.
Only a week or so after DDay, she handed Starshine his "stuff" that was left in the house and it hadn't even occurred to him to move out!
This story fascinates me also, because Starshine's OW's ExH lives with OWs parents. I finally got up the courage to ask NL what OW did that was so awful her parents took in the husband...well, NL said the OW slept with her EXHs brother.
NL said it was about a year before she finally stopped caring or asking Starshine what was so great about OW, especially after learning that. Now she doesn't want him to know anything about her and now their kids make fun of him and call him that too, with half the town here where they both grew up.
Starshine is a long time alcoholic and related to the local police, so its really sad to see what he gets away with.
Thank you for the replies. I tried to think of something fun to write about besides all the whining!
I also have curse words for Perv/Happy Pants and I love the story about Edgar. I am a Will Smith fan and think that's a hysterical reference.
Thank you for the Lols, I needed them today.