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fraeuken (original poster member #30742) posted at 11:19 PM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013
And thought about this community as I open a new chapter in my life. I would not be on this vacation all by myself if it was not for the support on this site.
I am looking forward to six days of "me" time. Looking forward to my first ever helicopter ride in Sunday. 18 year in California and STBXH could never be bothered to take me to Hawaii. So this is me conquering this on my own. Thanks to all of you!
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 12:07 AM on Friday, April 26th, 2013
Have fun. Hike all over Volcanos National Park. It's like nowhere else.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 1:06 AM on Friday, April 26th, 2013
Yay! Good for you!! Enjoy. 
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 1:12 AM on Friday, April 26th, 2013
Fraeuken! Where are you staying??? I live here! Let me know if you need any recommendations.
Do you have plans for this weekend? We have an awesome play showing at my theatre! I'd LOVE to give you tickets!
Enjoy. Enjoy. Enjoy. Welcome to paradise. Sit back and let the island heal you.
If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 1:36 AM on Friday, April 26th, 2013
..something about surf and sand and palm trees.. 
..enjoy the whole experience as a portal to your new life..
..you could even move there!!
the world is your oyster.... or shall we say, pineapple!
smy
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
permanentpain ( member #38312) posted at 1:44 AM on Friday, April 26th, 2013
Me: 32 y/o, student and mom of two of the best kids in the world
Him: 33 y/o scumbag
Divorcing
Feels good to start laughing and feeling better again...
PanicAttack53 ( member #34195) posted at 1:45 AM on Friday, April 26th, 2013
Congratulations!! Good for you!
Enjoy your trip and try and make it over to Maui. You'll love the little town of Lahaina and the whale watching this time of year is spectacular.
Most of all though... have fun!!
[This message edited by PanicAttack53 at 7:46 PM, April 25th (Thursday)]
Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 59 on D-day (11/17/11) | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle
hurting2much ( member #25643) posted at 1:51 AM on Friday, April 26th, 2013
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:24 AM on Friday, April 26th, 2013
Hope you have a wonderful time, fraeuken.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
fraeuken (original poster member #30742) posted at 2:48 AM on Friday, April 26th, 2013
Volcano Tour - booked :-)
Massage and Facial - booked :-)
Sitting on the deck with my travel guide and map and with a glass of cold Chardonnay checking out all the other options. Already devoured a pineapple, what a treat to eat it here.
Cheatermagnet, will send you a PM!
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
Survivor3512 ( member #37946) posted at 3:16 AM on Friday, April 26th, 2013
I'm so jealous. Have a wonderful trip!!!!
Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie
PanicAttack53 ( member #34195) posted at 5:30 AM on Friday, April 26th, 2013
deck in Hawaiian = Lanai.
Just sayin...
Maluhia/Peace
Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 59 on D-day (11/17/11) | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 6:55 AM on Friday, April 26th, 2013
Hey, aren't there a couple members of SI who live in Hawaii? You could have a G2G!!!
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
fraeuken (original poster member #30742) posted at 6:20 PM on Friday, April 26th, 2013
PA, starting my day with a great cup of coffee on my Lanai 
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
PanicAttack53 ( member #34195) posted at 9:26 PM on Friday, April 26th, 2013
Pictures... please... Pictures
Ho'o mana 'olana ao maika'i nau 'oe (Hope you have a great day!)
[This message edited by PanicAttack53 at 3:27 PM, April 26th (Friday)]
Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 59 on D-day (11/17/11) | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 4:33 AM on Saturday, April 27th, 2013
Isn't it so freeing being there knowing you don't have to please anyone else or consider what they want? Have a wonderful time!
(But I would definitely have gone with you!)
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
luv2swim ( member #13154) posted at 6:59 AM on Saturday, April 27th, 2013
PM ... Hope you enjoy your visit!
Me: BS
Him: WS
Married 24 years -
2 fantastic kids!
divorced 2009
D day: 2006 ... he left to live with OW.
Divorced: 2009
WS + OW: Married and still together (as far as I know).
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