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Divorce/Separation :
Why do I keep forgetting he's crazy!

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 Just Stunned (original poster member #33540) posted at 4:59 AM on Friday, April 26th, 2013

So WS has been coming around to see our child again for the past 4 months after taking a visitation "hiatus" for 8 months. Our son is only 2 1/2 and WS has missed most of his life.

In the past few weeks I've had to put our really nice home on the market, moved to a crappy small apartment in a not so nice neighborhood that's much further from my job. It's on the 3rd floor and my son has tumbled down the stairs more times than i can count and i could go on...

WS has been somewhat helpful during the move, helped with a little packing and is generally helpful with handy things like bringing in groceries and heavy stuff. WS has never paid child support and quit his job 6 months after we separated.

Tonight after a perfectly good visit he casually says... I don't want to upset you but I have a really nice big backyard! WHAT THE F!! ? I just stared in silence and he left.

So lets get this straight... Me and your child are living in a shitty, dangerous apartment because you left us in the lurch, quit your job and stuck me with a mortgage and all the debt while you and your skank whore are living in a nice house in the burbs with a big back yard?! What the hell do you say to that?

Who is this person? Why would he say this to me? He's insane and I just can't believe him sometimes. It's my fault though... I keep forgetting that I no longer know this person!

Sorry for the long rant but I needed to get this out of me!!!

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Housefulloflove ( member #38458) posted at 6:41 AM on Friday, April 26th, 2013

(((JustStunned)))

I understand completely. I recently had a mini-lapse in memory of how bat-sh*t crazy my STBX is as well.

I guess we so desperately want them to behave like a normal human that we get shocked over and over again by their inability to do what should come naturally. They're like animals who talk.

Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

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