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User Topic: Foolish last ditch effort
♀ 38928
Member # 38928
Default  Posted: 12:23 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, I readily acknowledge that I am a fool, but not completely. Even though POS has shown no remorse or willingness to R, I sent him a letter along with other mail of his telling him how I feel from my heart; the utter anguish that I am living with. I even sent some of the articles from the the Healing Library to try to get him to understand just how much damage he has inflicted. In a nutshell, even though I sent separation agreement papers previously, this letter opens a very small crack in the door to see if he will walk through it. I am cautiously optimistic, but not really hopeful. I am still pursuing legal steps and spent time after mailing the letter making copies of documentation for attorney. So as I said, I am not a complete fool. I just have so much emotional investment with this ass clown that I want to say I have tried absolutely everything before I call it quits after almost 30 years together. Because he is out of state, he won't get it until next week. Until then, the waiting is going to be absolutely horrific. One can only hope for a last minute miracle...

Call me a fool...

BS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - 2 adult DDs - DS20 Deceased
Happily divorced!

~Indifference - Because some people do not deserve your emotions.~

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Posts: 4796 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Land of Indifference
♂ 35778
Member # 35778
Default  Posted: 12:28 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wouldn't call you a fool at all. I get it. I hope....for your get the result you want. However, I caution you to not even hold your breath. The grass always looks so greener on the other side yet they forget why....because it's fertilized with so much shit


Posts: 305 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Canada
♂ 36697
Member # 36697
Default  Posted: 12:31 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How about I call you somebody who did everything they could to try to save something that was important to them instead?

Posts: 2940 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
♀ 31421
Member # 31421
Default  Posted: 1:42 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He should be the one to be begging to stay, but he isn't and you need to do 180. If he is a serial cheater and not trying, I say he is doing you a favor by letting you out of a one sided marriage.

You are not a fool!

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