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sparklingwater posted 4/27/2013 03:22 AM

Tomorrow my SO fly's back to his family, 1400 kms away. The final chapter of a horrible story that started 5 or 6 weeks ago. I know it is for the best, but today all my anger melted away and horrible sadness, grief and despair set in. I thought this man was my sole mate and now my world has turned upside down. I was so blindsided. I have started grieving the loss of him, and he doesn't even go until tomorrow. I can't stop sobbing and am an emotional mess.

Has anyone else experienced this intense out-pouring of grief when push comes to shove, and you have to finally let them go forever?

TrustGone posted 4/27/2013 05:22 AM

Yes. It is perfectly normal to feel this way and you will for a while. With time your pain will get better until there comes a day that you say to yourself, I am glad I did it. Don't expect that now. You have to grieve your loss and that's perfectly OK. (((HUGS)))

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