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User Topic: Celebrating 4 Years Sobriety Today!
looking forward
♀ 25238
Member # 25238
Happy  Posted: 7:26 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Four years ago today, I made the decision to change and embrace sobriety, cold turkey!
With much love & support from my husband -- thank you!

[This message edited by looking forward at 10:12 AM, April 27th (Saturday)]


Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

Posts: 2855 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it
HFSSC
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Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! I'm 4 months away from 5 years, God willing. I am proud of you.

[This message edited by HFSSC at 8:08 AM, April 27th (Saturday)]


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2879 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
jrc1963
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Member # 26531
Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AWESOME!!!!!!!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24662 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
authenticnow
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Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations Lookingforward! Good for you!

I have been watching your journey with much admiration and respect.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 38662 | Registered: Sep 2007
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful....congrats

[This message edited by Chrysalis123 at 8:47 AM, April 27th (Saturday)]


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2770 | Registered: Jan 2010
lost_in_toronto
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Member # 25395
Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so proud of every person who accomplishes sobriety. Congratulations!


Me: BS/39
Him: WS/37
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 14 years.
Reconciled.

Posts: 1710 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: not toronto anymore
Jada52
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Default  Posted: 9:41 AM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you! Congrats.


Silly Slut, husbands are for wives - get your own man B*tch!

Posts: 114 | Registered: Apr 2013
Haphazard
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Default  Posted: 12:02 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You should be so proud of yourself - congratulations!
...having had a mum who just couldnt get sober and eventualy drunk herself to death I know how hard it is

Posts: 18 | Registered: May 2011
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just re-read your H's poem in your profile.

*sigh: so beautiful*

You are treasured and deservedly so.

Congratulations!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17692 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!

Posts: 36451 | Registered: Mar 2011
Dark Inertia
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Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!! Amazing, congratulations!!! Very happy for you :)


"If I listened earlier, I wouldn't be here. But that's just the trouble with me. I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it."

Posts: 1327 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: The Ohio
Kodi
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((looking forward))))

Posts: 1363 | Registered: Sep 2007
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations looking forward!!!!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52992 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
gma56
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Cool  Posted: 8:39 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CONGRATS LOOKING FORWARD !!
That is huge !
Smile big and be proud !!
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20387 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! This fantastic news. Keep up the good work.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, April 27th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats! You look wonderful and happy. Happy for you and your husband. woot woot!


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9952 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 5:39 AM, April 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bravo!!!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25435 | Registered: Sep 2005
somanyyears
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Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, April 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..

..wishing you continued success and determination for reaching your ultimate goals in life.

..The road is long..
with many a winding trail,
that leads us to who knows where..
who knows when.
It's a long, long road....
from which there is no return.

((((lf)))))

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4134 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 10:03 AM, April 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WTG, looking forward!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15433 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
girlsbird
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Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, April 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So So very happy for you!!!


D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed

Posts: 1203 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: arizona
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