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User Topic: He's such a fucking loser!
Fooled Me Twice
♀ 34824
Member # 34824
Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, April 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Two weeks ago he emails me to say he was going to be out of town for the week - just an fyi. There was a couple of child/finance related things that I thought I should communicate during that week and did so via text since I am NC. He did not respond until the next day - so it makes me assume he was away for fun vs work. (He also would have very little reason to travel for work).

Fast Forward to today - drop DD off for visitation and he has her this coming week for one of his 3 potential weeks of vaca time with her. He asked for this week va ca a couple months ago bc he parents were coming for a visit. He says he is going down this and next weekend, but that he was working all week. I don't say anything bc in my head I just think - hmmmm, nice. DD gets to spend the week with your vile parents whom she barely knows as they live in another country and you couldn't be bothered to take the week off bc you just had a vaca with your 22 yo whore.

Dad of the year right there!

ME: BS 33 (now 34)
HIM: WS 33 (now 35)
OW: 22, howorker (now 24)
July 2007: Porn found on computer along with profiles on dating websites.
DDay: January 16, 2012 - suspicious since Dec 2011
Divorced: June 11, 2013

Posts: 209 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Here and There
little turtle
♀ 15584
Member # 15584
Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, April 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh. I can relate!! XH couldn't take any time off work during the weeks that the kids are off school, but he's talking about going to California for a week in August. His girlfriend's friend is getting married.

They don't realize how short life is and how fast the kids grow up!!

Failure is success if we learn from it.

3 boys: 11, 9, and 1.

Posts: 4799 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
♀ 38735
Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 11:46 PM, April 28th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can relate too. My STBXH also just took a week off of work because his skank came to town. He couldn't be bothered to see or even call the kids during that week. He has never taken vacation time to just do something with the kids.

BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 1270 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: AZ
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