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gahurts (original poster member #33699) posted at 2:41 AM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
So I heard about what a wonderful man OM was when I went through hell last year. He's so calm and understanding and how XWW can talk to him without judgement and that I would really like him if I gave him a chance.
I've heard snippets of what the truth is from XWW's former BFF - BFF is my friend now. SHe was a friend of the M and once the A hit their friendship disintegrated.
Last night I get a text from BFF. The last section was this:
they are both possessive and insecure. He says one thing but his actions were another. she called him a tightwad and it makes her want to scream and he acts liek a jilted lover. insanity and stupidity rolled up in one LOL!
This is great! It's so good to know that she is so much better off without me.
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"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 3:40 AM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 3:46 AM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
I just love it when the land of unicorns and pixie dust morphs into a big pile of dog shit that they magically find their faces in.
Warms the cockles of my heart 
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 3:49 AM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
it always comes back around...
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 12:29 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
that I would really like him if I gave him a chance
It's hard to choose, but of all the bullshit that comes out of their mouths, this has to be the worst.
Enjoy your life, gahurts, with the knowledge that she's 'enjoying' hers so much 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
allatsea ( member #38923) posted at 1:00 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
I love Tesla's response.
You can't fix crazy. All you can do is document it
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 5:18 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
Heartwarming. Thanks for sharing!
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
sunshine226 ( member #38851) posted at 5:24 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
LOL, Ive heard the same type of thing
OW is really friendly and smart........yeah shes so smart, she has believed all of WH's lies, despite me telling her 3 times we're still together, and then telling her absolutely EVERYTHING.
Ok, yeah she's smart 
Its a toss up as to who tells the most lies, WH or OW, if you ask me, I think they are both STUPID
Me-BS (44)
Him-WS (47)
DDay 1/1/2012, common law for 22 1/2 years when he began A in September 2011
Status: moving on without him
fallingquickly ( member #36599) posted at 7:17 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
The creepiest thing WH told me was before I knew about the cheating. He said MOW is a lot like our daughter. Yuck.
Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)
I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken
There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 10:35 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
t/j
Oh! I just remembered this...ex-shat about a year ago (pre-NC) after I went off on him about how could he take our son and parade him in front of stripper whore said this to me: "But you two are so similar."
Yeah, about as similar as a crack in my driveway is to the grand fucking canyon.
In his mind, pretty sure he had us being bffs.
end t/j
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"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
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