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Pippy (original poster member #16482) posted at 1:08 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
Just realised today (the 29th) that I completely forgot that I was D 7 years ago on Apr 6th.
You really do survive this - in time. I was devastated after 30 year of M and sure I'd never get past it.
You never "forget" about it, but you do live again and in my case I am much stronger than I was with him. The Sh*t that I took! Shame on me.
I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 2:25 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 3:11 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
you do live again and in my case I am much stronger
Love it!
defyinggravity ( member #25552) posted at 4:24 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
I'm only 2 years out from D but it really is getting easier. I think about it every day but I'm no longer devastated. Really pretty happy.
Me-BS Him-WS
Married-35 years
3 adult children
DD1-1/08. EA. In (fake) MC. "Just friends."
DD2-1/09. PA. Same OW,13 years younger. His married coworker.
Divorced-1/25/11 They married 2/12.
Pippy (original poster member #16482) posted at 6:53 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
defyinggravity you were M 35 years. How could a man do that? I am glad to hear you are doing better. You'll have good and bad days, but the good ones win out eventually.
I even came to the conclusion that it was meant to be, because now I am happier. It takes awhile but it DOES happen. Hang in there.
I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 11:32 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Grace and Flowers ( member #34431) posted at 11:52 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
Pippy,
I too wonder if was just meat to be...because I am sooooo much happier. I was married 25 years, together 30. I never thought I would feel so good again. I'm glad you do, too.
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