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Topic: Imagine that!

Pippy
♀ 16482
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Posted: 7:08 AM, April 29th (Monday), 2013

Just realised today (the 29th) that I completely forgot that I was D 7 years ago on Apr 6th.

You really do survive this - in time. I was devastated after 30 year of M and sure I'd never get past it.

You never "forget" about it, but you do live again and in my case I am much stronger than I was with him. The Sh*t that I took! Shame on me.

I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.

Posts: 9588 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: East of the Rockies

MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866

Posted: 8:25 AM, April 29th (Monday), 2013

AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

Posts: 54367 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation

jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528

Posted: 9:11 AM, April 29th (Monday), 2013

you do live again and in my case I am much stronger

Love it!

Posts: 46326 | Registered: Mar 2011

defyinggravity
♀ 25552
Member # 25552

Posted: 10:24 AM, April 29th (Monday), 2013

I'm only 2 years out from D but it really is getting easier. I think about it every day but I'm no longer devastated. Really pretty happy.

Me-BS Him-WS
Married-35 years
3 adult children
DD1-1/08. EA. In (fake) MC. "Just friends."
DD2-1/09. PA. Same OW,13 years younger. His married coworker.
Divorced-1/25/11 They married 2/12.

Posts: 101 | Registered: Sep 2009

Pippy
♀ 16482
Member # 16482

Posted: 12:53 PM, April 29th (Monday), 2013

defyinggravity you were M 35 years. How could a man do that? I am glad to hear you are doing better. You'll have good and bad days, but the good ones win out eventually.

I even came to the conclusion that it was meant to be, because now I am happier. It takes awhile but it DOES happen. Hang in there.

I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.

Posts: 9588 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: East of the Rockies

tesla
♀ 34697
Member # 34697

Posted: 5:32 PM, April 29th (Monday), 2013

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4958 | Registered: Jan 2012

Grace and Flowers
♀ 34431
Member # 34431

Posted: 5:52 PM, April 29th (Monday), 2013

Pippy,
I too wonder if was just meat to be...because I am sooooo much happier. I was married 25 years, together 30. I never thought I would feel so good again. I'm glad you do, too.

"Absence makes the clarity grow stronger" - cantaccept

"A good man with good intentions has no reason to lie" - somer222

Posts: 1360 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: US

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