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Pippy posted 4/29/2013 07:08 AM

Just realised today (the 29th) that I completely forgot that I was D 7 years ago on Apr 6th.

You really do survive this - in time. I was devastated after 30 year of M and sure I'd never get past it.

You never "forget" about it, but you do live again and in my case I am much stronger than I was with him. The Sh*t that I took! Shame on me.

MovingUpward posted 4/29/2013 08:25 AM

jo2love posted 4/29/2013 09:11 AM

you do live again and in my case I am much stronger

defyinggravity posted 4/29/2013 10:24 AM

I'm only 2 years out from D but it really is getting easier. I think about it every day but I'm no longer devastated. Really pretty happy.

Pippy posted 4/29/2013 12:53 PM

defyinggravity you were M 35 years. How could a man do that? I am glad to hear you are doing better. You'll have good and bad days, but the good ones win out eventually.

I even came to the conclusion that it was meant to be, because now I am happier. It takes awhile but it DOES happen. Hang in there.

tesla posted 4/29/2013 17:32 PM

Grace and Flowers posted 4/29/2013 17:52 PM

Pippy,
I too wonder if was just meat to be...because I am sooooo much happier. I was married 25 years, together 30. I never thought I would feel so good again. I'm glad you do, too.