So my divorce is final, I have been blessed with a new, old name. I thought things would get easier. But, I thought wrong. He still is causing problems with not paying things he is supposed to pay for. But that is a conversation for another day.
This dating s&*t is for the birds! I don't know what I am doing. Back story on me is that I dated my ex husband at 17 years old. I think I'm doing things wrong. I have been kind of testing the waters for some time now. I met a guy, seemed to hit it off. We talked nearly everyday for months, I didn't introduce him to my children, and instead of things getting closer they drifted apart after the second month. Then down to nothing. I picked myself up and brushed it off. (It did hurt though) Then I shamed myself by having a one night stand. It's probably fine, but not my style. Got past that and met someone who made me laugh and had a great time. He is quite a bit younger than me, but I thought I would just go with the flow and see what happens. We aren't in a "relationship" but pretty much act like it. He says he doesn't have anyone else like me, and I am the same. But after a few months, we went a week without talking at all. He didn't answer any type of communication. Then he appologised and said he is sometimes bad with communication. I have backed off and am a little concerned about getting too close. We are back to talking everyday again.
In the meantime, while we were not talking the first guy came back to start texting me and we met up once, just for me to realize I can't take him seriously. He is my age, divorced, has two children, but acts over 10 years younger and has commitment issues. I'm no booty call, so I'm done with that.
Add another situation, my ex husband has moved in with his girlfriend. The girl he cheated on me with. He has just informed me that they will both be attending my dd's softball games. I really don't care that they are together, I wouldn't take my ex back if you paid me. I am just not sure how to handle the situation. Do I ignore that they are even there? Should I be nice? How can I be the bigger person? Any and all opinions are welcome on any of this. I can use it, just please don't be harsh.