Just wanted to share that for the first time since DDay, WH and I got the hell out of town for the weekend - alone. Nowhere fancy, just a little motel near the beach that was practically deserted. A friend of mine mentioned an online deal she'd seen about a month ago and I hopped on it since it was dirt cheap.
It couldn't have been a better weekend, weather-wise. We were up at the crack of dawn each morning strolling the beach. There were lots of good talks, good drinks, and giggles.
(Well... there was a lot of...ahem...OTHER activities but there's no need to go into details there! 
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I know that things aren't all of a sudden perfect. I know that we can can still expect bad days, and that MC will continue - not sure when that will stop - WH still has a lot of family issues to work on.
But for the first time in I don't know how long, I didn't have "IT" on my mind when I woke up. WH was much less depressed/stressed than he's been in months. And those two things are huge.
So I just thought I'd share a happy moment... Hope things continue this way... 
