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Hunter23 (original poster member #37574) posted at 9:52 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
Just wanted to share that for the first time since DDay, WH and I got the hell out of town for the weekend - alone. Nowhere fancy, just a little motel near the beach that was practically deserted. A friend of mine mentioned an online deal she'd seen about a month ago and I hopped on it since it was dirt cheap.
It couldn't have been a better weekend, weather-wise. We were up at the crack of dawn each morning strolling the beach. There were lots of good talks, good drinks, and giggles.
(Well... there was a lot of...ahem...OTHER activities but there's no need to go into details there! 
)
I know that things aren't all of a sudden perfect. I know that we can can still expect bad days, and that MC will continue - not sure when that will stop - WH still has a lot of family issues to work on.
But for the first time in I don't know how long, I didn't have "IT" on my mind when I woke up. WH was much less depressed/stressed than he's been in months. And those two things are huge.
So I just thought I'd share a happy moment... Hope things continue this way... 
Me: BW, 38
Him:WH, 40
DDay: Nov 3, 2012
Hoping to recover...
LivinginLimbo ( member #35004) posted at 10:18 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
Those getaways are such a mood booster. You're away from so many of the reminders and you don't seem to dwell on "it".
I'm glad you had a good time.
BS - 65
WH - 63
Married 37 years
D-Day 2/12/12
D-Day 6/1/16 Caught him back online early enough that no physical contact took place but still devastating. This sucks.
jjsr ( member #34353) posted at 3:25 AM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2013
Sounds like a great time. We did that too. Went to a B&B...maybe its time for us to do it again
Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA and 10/28/15 NEW dday.
Just surviving.
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