It's too early to cheer because anything can still happen at this point but i have a sort of nervous excitement about this!
She just told me on Friday that she found a place in town and she should be moving out by the end of May/beginning of June. This in-home separation has been killing me and my ability to heal so this is a huge step in my recovery.
Since she'll be moving out we need to seriously discuss co-parenting arrangements. We have a court date next month to go over a few things but she has said on more than one occasion that she would rather get it all done through a mediator instead of lawyers. She could rescind the petition just by going back to the courthouse and telling them so but i'm not so sure if that's a good idea anymore..
She wants to switch off every two days. Mon/Tues with her, Wed/Thurs with me, etc. Then alternate weekends with Friday/Sat/Sun. Personally i think that's too frequent and will put DS through a lot of back and forth. I would prefer the 4/3 split i hear most people do.
She and i definitely have some talking to do sometime real soon. It's a shame, i was kinda enjoying the 180 lately, freeing up some mental space and not dealing with her lies and bullshit has been nice.
The only real downside to her moving out is that i won't get to catch glimpses of her naked anymore. Studying her body used to be one of my favorite pastimes. Bleh, stop it. 180. NC. Baseball. Cold showers.
Me: BBF (29)
WXGF: Confused26 (27) EA/PA with xBF, lasted almost a year. TT, blameshifting, gaslighting, & broken NC for 10 months.
Together 5 years
3+ years later and I am doing great! Hell of a ride but well worth it.