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turned123 posted 4/29/2013 17:04 PM

Now that I've been divorced two years, separated for 3, fell in love again in a new beginning, learned that the end of the world didn't in fact happen, have trouble at times dealing with problems with my kids because of the divorce. Where do I post? When my kids are bummed because their mother blew up their world???

want_to_forgive posted 4/29/2013 17:17 PM

Hi Turned,

My experience with SI has been that pretty much every forum is full of wonderful, supportive peeps!

My daughter was putting me through the ringer a few years ago, I found a lot of good advice in Off Topic.

Divorce and Separating is also pretty active, and a lot of people there are dealing with parenting issues.

It's great that you have made it this far and you are still reaching out, it is awesome to see men posting about wanting to help their children.

turned123 posted 4/29/2013 18:24 PM

Thanks want to!! The feedback here is very helpful!! I need to improve on adding back story and details when I post so people know what they are dealing with. Sometimes in divorce/sep folks think I'm not divorced yet. Maybe off topic is a better spot for me.

kernel posted 4/29/2013 18:42 PM

Right here in NB is okay for stuff about your kids too, when it's related to the A. All of that stuff is part of your NB, not just the happy stuff or the dating stuff.

turned123 posted 4/29/2013 18:52 PM

Most excellent!! It's nice to be home

torn2bits posted 4/29/2013 20:25 PM

Turned, the best thing about SI is that you will get good advice no matter where you post!

Yep, NB is good for kids stuff too since there are divorced people here having kids issues too.

I post/read here even though I have been trying to divorce for 3 years now. Some of us have the SA/NPD divorce poison STBX/X so we know a few things.

Post away!

stupidstupidme posted 4/30/2013 08:55 AM

Off Topic is great for kid issues, but not for infidelity. I think there's a strict rule in OT, so if your post still centers around infidelity, maybe D/S, or here, or general.

turned123 posted 4/30/2013 17:27 PM

Well looks like off topic is the place for me or here boy I thought settling a divorce was complicated