Sorry for all my posts, I am working really hard not to freak out but feel it trying to get the better of me.
The newest drama is that STBXH said that he wishes DD10 could live with him "there". This made me throw up, but also pushed my worry buttons, wondering if he is going to attempt to take her away from me along with everything else? He said "I guess you get custody because you're the mother." What about besides what he did?
I notice that he didn't mention the baby to be in there.
I worked really hard not to respond to it but it's on my mind a lot today.
I know that he wanted to replace me in his life, but I was heartbroken to hear it or that he thinks so little of me as to do that and take away everything I have.
He also mentioned the house, which we built together. He said, "I suppose you get that too, being the mother." Besides, the children, this house is all that's left with the stuff it we collected over the years.
I can't tell if these are working thoughts or if it's him realizing his consequences are beginning to be "live"?
Any advice would be helpful, like, would he have any legs to stand on if he got serious about DD/baby or if OW pushed him at it?
He sold me down the river in so many ways, but taking away the children is not something that I can bear. Make that woman my children's mother? I am in such tears and have to pull myself together somehow.
I've mentioned before how he painted an image of me that is not favorable and I suspect it's in order to make himself look better, probably? Luckily, there are many people to vouch for me, including professionals and to vouch for his lying.
Thank you for any ideas...this is a major blow below the belt and something that I feared he would be thinking about.
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.