Ditto to what the others have said, but I have a slightly different suggestion following my IC discussion yesterday.
MY IC recommended a self assessment program by a group called Identity and Destiny. There are a series of self assessment tests that help identify areas of strengths and weakness along with tools and recommended reading to address the identified weaknesses. The workbook from them is about $20. The program was developed as a business by a couple from a sister church to ours, so the program is somewhat spiritually based, but contains a lot of valuable tools even if you choose to minimize the spiritual component. I just ordered the book and haven't done much more than review their website - identityanddestiny.com - so I can't comment on the program very much, but my IC was very high on it so I thought I'd give it a look. Maybe it will help, maybe not but it is unlikely to hurt.
[This message edited by Finally10 at 2:01 PM, May 1st (Wednesday)]