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caregiver9000 posted 4/30/2013 16:55 PM

One of the NB worries (for me for sure) was how I would DO "IT" all alone? "IT" being anything previously delegated as something I couldn't do.... or didn't do.

I have celebrated the stories of others conquering this in so many ways and it is confidence building to hear the success stories.

So here is mine.

I bought a tv. We graduated from the standard def to HD. After the channels began to scramble ... well, it was time.

I hesitated (months, really! and I think fear was part of it. What if I buy the wrong thing? All the connections? cost and size and hertz and pixels, plasma vs. led, lcd, brands.

Well, I did it. I moved the heavy monster sd tv without breaking anything, myself included. I got all the components connected, even the wii which required a hidden menu change after connecting.

I feel so proud and capable. And independent.

DS watched a baby animals show last night and said, "wow. cuteness in HD is REALLY cute!"

Survivor3512 posted 4/30/2013 17:35 PM

Good for you!!

jo2love posted 4/30/2013 17:54 PM

Congrats!!!

Kajem posted 4/30/2013 19:31 PM

Yay... you're my hero.

Hugs,

K

cmego posted 4/30/2013 19:39 PM

I've learned to hire people.

Good for you :) We CAN do this...and do it well.

nutmegkitty posted 4/30/2013 20:47 PM

Go you!! HD is freaking awesome.

tesla posted 4/30/2013 21:26 PM

NaiveAgain posted 4/30/2013 21:41 PM

Awesome! Sometimes it is figuring out the little things!

PurpleRose posted 4/30/2013 22:33 PM

Nice!! I've made a few "big" decisions on my own now and each one is a little easier than the last. I do find myself still thinking about how nice it was to have a partner to bounce those things off of, or who had the expertise to make a sound decision in a certain area.

But the Internet is awesome! My friends, their husbands, and a few new single friends I have made are all super helpful. And if I really can't do it, I hire out!!

Congrats on the new tv!!

nowiknow23 posted 5/1/2013 20:14 PM

DS watched a baby animals show last night and said, "wow. cuteness in HD is REALLY cute!"

Well done, cg!

Nature_Girl posted 5/2/2013 01:51 AM

Woot!

dlmos posted 5/2/2013 07:23 AM

Congratz!

wonderingbull posted 5/2/2013 11:50 AM

Congrats girl!

WB

stronggirl72 posted 5/2/2013 12:55 PM

I love this!!

Helen of Troy posted 5/2/2013 19:17 PM

Nice! very empowering too.

neverbeokay posted 5/3/2013 07:36 AM

Great job and I know that feeling of - can I do this? - and then, yes I can!!

For me it was buying a "pre-owned" car - never bought any car without a man's help - and negotiating a price that even my nephew who runs a car dealership said was a great deal!

You CAN do it!!

ChoosingHope posted 5/3/2013 21:01 PM

Great job, Care!!!

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