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Wayward Side :
What I'm sorry for-

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 Apple3point14 (original poster member #39035) posted at 11:00 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2013

I am a WS that has had 3 pa's.

I am sorry that I changed our relationship without asking. It wasn't fair. Bs is stuck in a place that she never asked to be. I dumped it in her lap and she gets to help fix it.

Im sorry I took away her safe place. I ripped away everything she thought was real. What I did put in question everything she knows. This sucks and I'm so sorry.

I am sorry I was so autonomous , I am in a marriage yet I wanted to find control in everything I did.

I am sorry I can never be the husband she wanted. I will work hard and put her and family first. I can and will be safer and a better man than I was. But I cheated. Not what she signed up for.

I am sorry for thinking I knew what details of my A's were important and leaving out what I considered insignificant details and tt'ing.- again made it about me.

I'm sorry I didn't go to my wife when I was having problems. My bs is the smartest, most capable person I know, yet I turned from her. I was such a Dumbass.

I'm sorry I only thought of myself during my A's I didn't think how it would impact(destroy my family). I Was so selfish. I was a compartmentalizing asshole.

I am working hard to correct all these things and understand the whys and the effects of my actions.

sI is a great resource.

Thank you.

Why are you sorry for.

[This message edited by Apple3point14 at 6:01 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)]

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UnexpectedSong ( member #21761) posted at 11:55 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2013

These are a good start.

Do you know why you cheated?

WW(SA)
"Feedback is the breakfast of champions." - Boris Becker

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libertyrocks ( member #38924) posted at 11:57 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2013

Wow, that's awesome WS! No more TT. Good luck sweetie.

Me-37 Ws-37
2 kids
Dday Nov 2012, TT for a year.
Reconciling for the third time in 4 years.

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 Apple3point14 (original poster member #39035) posted at 11:58 PM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2013

Yes, I know why. I'm honing it, but yes.

[This message edited by Apple3point14 at 6:38 PM, April 30th (Tuesday)]

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