I am a WS that has had 3 pa's.
I am sorry that I changed our relationship without asking. It wasn't fair. Bs is stuck in a place that she never asked to be. I dumped it in her lap and she gets to help fix it.
Im sorry I took away her safe place. I ripped away everything she thought was real. What I did put in question everything she knows. This sucks and I'm so sorry.
I am sorry I was so autonomous , I am in a marriage yet I wanted to find control in everything I did.
I am sorry I can never be the husband she wanted. I will work hard and put her and family first. I can and will be safer and a better man than I was. But I cheated. Not what she signed up for.
I am sorry for thinking I knew what details of my A's were important and leaving out what I considered insignificant details and tt'ing.- again made it about me.
I'm sorry I didn't go to my wife when I was having problems. My bs is the smartest, most capable person I know, yet I turned from her. I was such a Dumbass.
I'm sorry I only thought of myself during my A's I didn't think how it would impact(destroy my family). I Was so selfish. I was a compartmentalizing asshole.
I am working hard to correct all these things and understand the whys and the effects of my actions.
sI is a great resource.
Why are you sorry for.