My gut has been screaming at me for a few months now. So, about a week ago, I checked his call log, and found a number that he texts daily. Obsessively is seemed. My cousin called it, no answer, so my cousin texted it, got a response, but we couldn’t get a name (my cousin was just acting like she had the wrong number). I did some more digging, I wanted to see how far back this number went in his call log. The first appearance was on 2/14. And has been daily since. Each billing cycle would show 3-4 pages of texts. I can’t see how many texts are to me though since we are both iphone users, and apparent those do not show up.
So, last night, I finally snatched his phone while he was sleeping. Her number was in there, but it was not saved to his phone. At first glance, I thought I was crazy…it seemed so innocent. Apparently, they have a class together. He tutors science, and she tutors as well. It all seemed like the texts were strictly about class, and studying, and exchanging information regarding tests. When I went to lay down, I still had that nagging feeling, so I got up and grabbed his phone again. I looked through his pictures, nothing. I checked his email, thinking that there HAD to be another email address that I was no aware of…nothing. So, I went back in to the text to this girl. I scrolled all the way to the beginning, in Feb. It all started out innocently enough. Then, my gut feeling was put to rest. A couple examples of what I found:
Her: Hey, can I steal you Wednesday night to study?
Him: Depends…what are you going to do with me after?
Her: After much consideration on how to respond to that text, I’ve decided to keep my response professional. After MCAT, then we can discuss something more “unprofessional”.
Her: Thank you for studying and making me laugh. I really needed it.
Him: You’re welcome. I love to see your smile.
Her: Good luck today! If I was there, I would give you a big ol’ bear hug?
Him: Thank you! That last hug was pretty nice.
Him: So the professor gave you a compliment. He told me he noticed how sexy you are. I told him I noticed a long time ago.
Her: Oh wow, that is a compliment! I guess he thinks I have confidence, but you know me better, so no fooling you.
Him: Confidence is such a sexy thing, don’t you think?
He calls her Bonita. I can’t remember the last time he told me I was beautiful. She has picked him up from my house. She thinks he is single, because she asked him about his visitation with his princess.
I am sick. I do not know how to confront. He will deny deny deny. I looked her up…I have her email address. She is very “exotic” looking. A pretty girl. Kind of like Salma Hayek-y.