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My D-Day was April 14. I tried to post this story earlier and it didn't go through for some reason.

Anyway, the OW showed up at my doorstep on a Sunday afternoon. A beautiful petite, well put together woman. She asked my if *** lived here, had three children named ***, exwife in named***. I confirmed, and she told me that she has been seeing him for the last 6 months.

This is my second marriage and my first husband cheated on me as well. So as you might have guessed I am wondering what is wrong with me. I am 44 and look younger and frequently receive attention from men, even younger men in their 20's. I am still very insecure about myself despite this attention.

All I have ever wanted to be is a mother and have a happy marriage. I have 3 children of my own and 3 stepchildren who I love dearly.

My husband and I are going to marriage counseling and he is seeing a counselor on his own. I see a psychiatrist and take anti anxiety and depression medication.

We are going to work on this. But I don't know how I am ever going to get over this insecurity. I get anxious when I don't see or hear from him and I hate feeling this desperate.

Does anybody else feel this way? Are you worried that your WS is going to stop trying eventually to rebuild a trusting marriage?

you did post this

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=494888&HL=21101

Many of us responded. Please follow the link and read all of our responses. Then ask the questions. If you didn't see the responses then you may still feel that this has something to do with a shortcoming within yourself.

Of course your have Depression and anxiety. A lot of people do, and they haven't been through half the junk your have.

follow the link. Ask questions. We will support and answer as best we can.

Thanks, I just found it. My brain is mush at this point.

No worries sweetie, just wanted you to know we heard you, and responded.