Depends on what you've done to heal....
Is your H NC, honest (does he answer your questions, share his thoughts and feelings), transparent (keeps you informed of his whereabouts and companions), in IC? How does he help you? Has he fully acknowledged his responsibility? How has he changed the thoughts and feelings that allowed him to cheat and lie?
Do you ask the questions you need to ask? Are you in IC? MC?
Seeing ow could really slow your healing down, so his work could have been an obstacle.
Also, IMO you really need to focus on the present much more than the future. His A may be in the past - though not completely if he still sees, or just recently stopped seeing, ow - but your trauma is in the present.