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phoenix54 (original poster member #36574) posted at 7:56 PM on Thursday, May 2nd, 2013
Just got off the phone with my WW who went to IC today. We spent a fair amount of time discussing our wayward son who is in recovery and is a royal pain in the a**. We spend a lot of time and energy on him and it's very draining.
Toward the end of the conversation, she asked me if I wanted to go out for dinner Saturday night. She acknowledged that it was d-day and a difficult day and thought it might be nice to spend quality time together. It was her asking me for a date night.
We can't go out for dinner because I have a father-daughter dance to attend. But I appreciated the sentiment.
Frankly, I was surprised because of the way things have been going (not well).
Maybe the new counselor is making progress with her.
I'm not going to get over the top or excited about this. I've been fooled before.
[This message edited by phoenix54 at 1:56 PM, May 2nd (Thursday)]
BH: 47 (me)
WW: 45
11 month PA/EA
4 children
D-day: 5/4/12
Married: 20 years
Reconciled
sailorgirl ( member #38162) posted at 2:51 AM on Friday, May 3rd, 2013
I hope it turns out to be a sign of better things to come.
I also think the right counselor is a huge find.
Best wishes,
sailorgirl
Married 14 years, three amazing kids
H had 17 month EA/PA
D-day 1/5/13
Reconcilling
Hearthache again ( member #28564) posted at 4:23 AM on Friday, May 3rd, 2013
This is great that she wanted to make that day a little better. No matter what it is a good step forward. Some WS don't wan to acknowledge anything to do with the A.
Me-BS(34)
Him-WS(37)
Married-14 years together 15
Kids 4: 17, 14, 10, and 5
DDay#1 9-26-2008 Dday#2 4-26-2010
We have R!!! But I still hate the number 26!
This too shall pass
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