Thanks, all, for helping me through a dark period. Things are looking up.
I think two things were going on. One is, regular life intruded in the form of a painful pinched nerve for me, no sleep, etc. And my fWH was getting complacent since things were going so well.
This am he was back to running my bath, showering me with hugs and kisses and I love yous and he said that there will be "no coasting" just because we are happy. Now I'll have to see if he follows that up with digging into the questions that I've given him. He admitted that he's a"work in progress" and that digging deeper will benefit us both.
I don't know what I would do without the support I receive here.