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Topic: Wow long day

Joanh
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Posted: 8:37 PM, May 3rd (Friday), 2013

So we made the day with no more tears . working on our garage which is going to be my salon, I feel both loved and guilty for it . I know my BH loves me and he still wants to keep me happy. But how do you stop feeling bad underserving for these thing?

BH 39
WW 43
D day November 9, 2012
3 children 22, 8, 6
Just....

Posts: 482 | Registered: Apr 2013

Mrs Panda
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Member # 27303

Posted: 10:50 PM, May 3rd (Friday), 2013

Hi Joanh.

By working on yourself and being and becoming the person you want to be. By accepting the bad parts of you and not letting them rule you. By doing things that make you proud to be you. By living with integrity. By being kind. By not squandering a second chance.

It takes a long long time. Me, I am still not sure I forgive me. I am not the forgiving type though, lol.

My BH has a different philosophy about this, which is simply that we are human, and we fuck up. He has forgiven me.

Welcome to SI.

Me-44 FWW Him-47Bh
M 16 years. Reconciled.
DDay#1 Nov 2008
DDay#2 Aug 2009 (Prior A from 2001)
"Those who believe in telekinetics, raise my hand." -Kurt Vonnegut

Posts: 2034 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: NY state

knightsbff
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Member # 36853

Posted: 10:53 PM, May 3rd (Friday), 2013

Everything mrs panda said.

And...hugs. (((Joanh)))

fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 23, 16, 12. 2 dogs.

I edit often to fix stuff ☺️

Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.

Posts: 1767 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA

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