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Joanh posted 5/3/2013 20:37 PM

So we made the day with no more tears . working on our garage which is going to be my salon, I feel both loved and guilty for it . I know my BH loves me and he still wants to keep me happy. But how do you stop feeling bad underserving for these thing?

Mrs Panda posted 5/3/2013 22:50 PM

Hi Joanh.

By working on yourself and being and becoming the person you want to be. By accepting the bad parts of you and not letting them rule you. By doing things that make you proud to be you. By living with integrity. By being kind. By not squandering a second chance.

It takes a long long time. Me, I am still not sure I forgive me. I am not the forgiving type though, lol.

My BH has a different philosophy about this, which is simply that we are human, and we fuck up. He has forgiven me.

Welcome to SI.

knightsbff posted 5/3/2013 22:53 PM

Everything mrs panda said.

And...hugs. (((Joanh)))

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