Me: BW Him: who cares
Every M has problems, issues, poor communication, stresses, hurts.
Not every one chooses to cheat. Some M are really dysfunctional but there is never a good reason to cheat.
The cheating is not about you, it's not your fault. Your WH is broken and this is how he chose to cope.
Married: 12 yrs
2 DDs and DSs all under 10
Who knows how many affairs at this point
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.