I think my NB is coming to an end.
Had a very odd discussion Friday night that did not sit well with me, and I haven't heard from him all day except for a 'good morning' text.
So,I'm feeling a bit bewildered and confused because:
- he blew me off today and
- things he said on Friday night.
We had plans for lunch today, but he blew me off. No phone call. No text.
Friday night's discussion points:
- he said he is f'ed up (no explanation)
- that we should not have sex anymore because he wants us to be best friends (i told him that there was no such thing as a game-changer like this just because he wants it like that.)
- his baby-mama doesnt care that he dates around (i said who is she to care in the first place. you have never been married to her.)
-- To me all of this was code for that he has some other relationship on the go.
I feel quite queasy because of all this.
I don't want to look pathetic and desperate by inundating him with texts and phone calls. I have already called once and sent one text, but he hasn't replied. I know that my text has been read though.
He has played this disappearing act before, and I was a bit suspicious then. I've had my guard up since, and have listened very carefully to his words and watched his actions.
It just doesn't feel right.