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User Topic: Unopened chocolate
lonely2009
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Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My H left for a three day conference and expects the two unopened chocolate with sea salt and almond candy bars will still be unopened.

This seems unreasonable....

On a positive note, i don't have to share the delightful cabernet from Paso Robles.


BS- Me -young at heart
FWH- AARP Eligible
M - Over a quarter of a century
DDay - 9-14-09
R - going full steam ahead

Posts: 323 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: West Coast
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:32 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My H left for a three day conference and expects the two unopened chocolate with sea salt and almond candy bars will still be unopened.

That's preposterous!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WHAT unopened chocolate? I don't remember any unopened chocolate, honey. How was your conference?


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"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's cruel and inhuman!

(Do you know where he bought them? Because you could always replace them... )


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Posts: 20433 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
lonely2009
♀ 26370
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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He will know, he took a picture. Yes, he knows me oh so well.

Hmmm, I could replace.


BS- Me -young at heart
FWH- AARP Eligible
M - Over a quarter of a century
DDay - 9-14-09
R - going full steam ahead

Posts: 323 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: West Coast
5454real
♂ 37455
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Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Honey, I have terrible news, we were robbed......"


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 3160 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is Domestic Abuse!!!! Seriously!!!

However... Instead of replacing his... I would eat them, then put cardboard in the wrappers and leave them there for him to find!!!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
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Posts: 24658 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
lonely2009
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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like that. The robbers also stole that lovely sangiovese that we were saving...


BS- Me -young at heart
FWH- AARP Eligible
M - Over a quarter of a century
DDay - 9-14-09
R - going full steam ahead

Posts: 323 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: West Coast
kernel
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Default  Posted: 8:36 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Silly girl, just get your own - three of them!


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5336 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
Grace and Flowers
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Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just the title of this thread had me alarmed. There's something seriously wrong if there is unopened chocolate somewhere!


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Posts: 1195 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: US
whensenough
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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He will know

^^^^The best part...hey at least you didnt try to deceive him about it , right?


WSO: 29
BSO: 27 mommy of 3 under 7, #4 due may 2013
D Day#1: august 25 2010 ow#1
D Day#2: jun 15 2012 from 7 mt PA/EA with ow#2
+ a couple of short term flings.
D Day #3 sometime the last week in march / false R Same ow
OVER IT ALL!! DONE!!

Posts: 222 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Tx
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 10:27 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, that wouldn't be a problem for me. It's chocolate, it's in the house, it's not under lock & key. No problem. Same goes for ice cream.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10012 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Waiting4Daylite
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Default  Posted: 10:50 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In my home there is no such thing as "unopened" chocolate anything.

My youngest DD17 has her father trained to hand over the chocolate as soon he comes in the door from the store. He actually has it in his hand and tosses it to us like we're animals in the zoo.

It keeps the peace!!!!


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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 11:13 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Unopened chocolate"

Could someone please explain this to me??


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Posts: 2463 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
avicarswife
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Default  Posted: 11:28 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Unopened chocolate"
Could someone please explain this to me??

Not totally sure - I think you can get it at shops - but I've never seen it anywhere else.


BS: 47 (me)
WH: 51
Married 26 yrs, 3 kids (16-24)
D-Days 2012: 23 - 24 May + TT
D-Day 2013: 12 Apr OW#3
mOW #1 EA yrs PA Feb 2009-end 2011
mOW #2 EA months PA 4 months 2010
OW #3 PA single time 2010
Status: Maybe 'R'

Posts: 730 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: "down-under"
NotDefeatedYet
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Default  Posted: 2:13 AM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would steal dark chocolate from a baby. Sometimes that devil on my shoulder makes a very convincing argument.


"It's a fool that looks for logic in the chambers of the human heart."

Posts: 769 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Texas
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sometimes you just have to go ahead an indulge.

We have a chocolatier that we supply honey to, he makes these works of art for candy, with all these awesome ingredients. When any of these make their way into our house it is a race to hide them so the kids don't get them.

They can have a snickers bar. I get the good stuff.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
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