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User Topic: Update about my Friend
♀ 8923
Member # 8923
Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My friend and I are now living together. His divorce will be final this month, as the
lawyer appears
before the judge on the 17 th to request the final decree. His soon to be exwife and he
are still amicable
- I know this because when they converse about the divorce, he puts his phone on speaker.
He wants
to be open and transparent about everything, so that our relationship goes well. We have
had a few
things come up that proved to be a good test of both of our communication/relationship
skills and his
words and actions were spot on. He recently had to go renew his access card for my state
management department where he has volunteered his skills with ham radio since 2010. His
level went up so he needed new picture id which opens all doors to him at state police
headquarters......better than a background check imo. He really IS a good man, my late
judgement was not impaired when he set this new romance in motion by asking friend to
look after me.

I am so glad that I did not reject the gift that God/the Universe sent to me. I am very
very happy again.
My son and my friends are pretty delighted by this turn of events too. Thank you for
caring about me,
SI friends. I wanted to let you know how well this is turning out.

In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus
--------69 now. Dday was 11/11/05
***Used to be hit-by-a-train***
Widowed, then VERY happily remarried 2/14/14

Posts: 2576 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: USA
♀ 35695
Member # 35695
Default  Posted: 10:51 PM, May 5th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thanks for sharing your beautiful life

Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

Posts: 493 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Australia
♀ 19595
Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 12:20 AM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's so wonderful to read that life still have good surprises for us !

It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20489 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
♀ 16024
Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 5:30 AM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wishing you lots of happiness!

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

Posts: 55130 | Registered: Sep 2007
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