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SoHappyNow posted 5/5/2013 19:54 PM

My friend and I are now living together. His divorce will be final this month, as the
lawyer appears
before the judge on the 17 th to request the final decree. His soon to be exwife and he
are still amicable
- I know this because when they converse about the divorce, he puts his phone on speaker.
He wants
to be open and transparent about everything, so that our relationship goes well. We have
had a few
things come up that proved to be a good test of both of our communication/relationship
skills and his
words and actions were spot on. He recently had to go renew his access card for my state
emergency
management department where he has volunteered his skills with ham radio since 2010. His
clearance
level went up so he needed new picture id which opens all doors to him at state police
headquarters......better than a background check imo. He really IS a good man, my late
husband's
judgement was not impaired when he set this new romance in motion by asking friend to
look after me.

I am so glad that I did not reject the gift that God/the Universe sent to me. I am very
very happy again.
My son and my friends are pretty delighted by this turn of events too. Thank you for
caring about me,
SI friends. I wanted to let you know how well this is turning out.

MyVoice posted 5/5/2013 22:51 PM

thanks for sharing your beautiful life

gma56 posted 5/6/2013 00:20 AM

It's so wonderful to read that life still have good surprises for us !

authenticnow posted 5/6/2013 05:30 AM

Wishing you lots of happiness!