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User Topic: The right thing to say
♂ 38122
Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 11:22 AM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I went to my hometown on the weekend for my sister's book launch. My sister's best friend was my first crush as a kid (seven years older than me). She was there as well.

We did lots of harmless flirting, with absolutely NO intentions of more of course, and it was fun.

As I was getting ready to head back home, she gave me a big hug, and said, "I hear you're making positive changes and being a really good dad right now. You should be proud."

I almost wept on the spot. It was exactly what I needed to hear. I was only able to croak out, "Thank you. It's good."

They're a rare breed, but some people just know the right thing to say!

Me: 1970
Two sons: 2000 and 2003
Cheating louse: What's her name again?

Married Aug/95
DDay Nov/12
Separated Mar/13
Finally divorced Jul/17

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!

Posts: 3623 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 12:23 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She sounds like good people.

Posts: 50794 | Registered: Mar 2011
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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are lucky to know her. See how just a few words can change someone.

I am happy she made you feel good.

Me: 45/WH (SA): 49
M: 26 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce halted

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Apr 2010 | From: Midwest
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's really nice.

Me: BW-46
Him: XWH-46

Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

Posts: 5287 | Registered: Mar 2011
♂ 36258
Member # 36258
Default  Posted: 10:07 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

AWE!!! That was great. I know I would of been speechless for a bit too.

/I think my contacts are getting dry.

Posts: 342 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: St.Paul Minnesota
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