My neighbour and I were chatting in the backyard on Saturday.
She told me that she had seen a car on the street with a man in it and it appeared that the man had a camera and was looking at me through the camera when I take the dog out in the evening to do his business before we go to bed.
This neighbour is pretty skittish and has a full security system and cameras on the corners of her eaves.
She notices everything.
I kind of laughed it off thinking, "who would be watching me?"
But last night...
I took the dog out and noticed a car like she described parked in front of the fire hydrant near where the dog goes. There was a man in the car and he had his arm up on the window edge with his hand on his head. Effectively shieding his face.
I walked right around the front of the car (memorized the licence plate number) and noticed that it looked like he had a pair of binoculars in his lap. That concerned me since we have a key code lock and I worry that when the kids go in the house they don't shield the code very well because they are short.
Could he have been looking to get the code?
The dog peed and I went into the house and locked the door.
When I looked out the window he pulled away and left.
I was shaken but my DD was up and she can sense when I'm upset.
I went upstairs and had a look and found 2 drawers of my jewelry box were left open. Sometimes the kids do that but they said they weren't in there. I was in one drawer a couple of days ago but I don't wear the stuff much.
I don't have anything expensive and only 2 pieces with real diamonds.
Then I was really concerned. I checked around and couldn't find anything else out of place.
I sent a text to Dumbass to see if he had been in the house. Told him about the car and he called me. I told him I had changed the code on the door lock. That was easy. I have a chain lock on the door as well. I put something in front that would make noise if the door opened. The dog barks if he hears things. He is a small lap dog so he's not much for protections.
DA offered to come sleep at the house. I said no, I have to deal with things like this now.
It took a long time to get to sleep and I'm really tired today.
I just can't help thinking that this guy is looking for DA. Maybe his MOW hired a PI or her BH?
Maybe DA owes someone money?
I don't think it's about me. It pisses me off that this could be yet more fallout from this ass that I had kids with.
More to feel guilty about.
I just hope it's not a pedophile.
OMG this is making me so worried.