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Topic: oh fuck... when does it end
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stupidstupidme
♀ 11888
Member # 11888 |  Posted: 4:46 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013 |     |
When do I get a break 
Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson
Posts: 19747 | Registered: Aug 2006 |
jrc1963
♀ 26531
Member # 26531 |  Posted: 4:47 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013 | |
(((SSM)))
Me: BSO - 48
Him: FWSO - 71
DS - 15
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Posts: 25888 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida |
Crescita
♀ 32616
Member # 32616 | | Posted: 5:30 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013 | |
(((ssm)))
Hang in there sweetie, good and bad things come in waves.
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
Posts: 3640 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun |
stupidstupidme
♀ 11888
Member # 11888 | | Posted: 6:15 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013 | |
This is bad
Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson
Posts: 19747 | Registered: Aug 2006 |
weeping willow
♀ 22800
Member # 22800 | | Posted: 6:19 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013 | |
((((SSM))))
I'm praying that things will be better for you very soon.
BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 40 years
Posts: 1798 | Registered: Feb 2009 |
jrc1963
♀ 26531
Member # 26531 | | Posted: 6:26 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013 | |
SSM... Talk to us if you can...
What's happened?
Me: BSO - 48
Him: FWSO - 71
DS - 15
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Posts: 25888 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 6:35 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013 | |
(((ssm)))
Lean on us. We are here for you. Sending you strength and hope.
Posts: 49745 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
Williesmom
♀ 22870
Member # 22870 | | Posted: 6:46 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013 | |
((Ssm))
You're in my thoughts. Take a deep breath.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 9114 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 6:54 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013 | |
(((((ssm))))) Holding you in my thoughts, honey.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Posts: 40065 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
betrayedfriend
♀ 19785
Member # 19785 | | Posted: 8:12 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013 | |
((SSM)) I don't know what's going on, and am hoping you can share if you are able so that we can better support you, but in the mean time, huge hugs, for you and yours and I'll add you to my prayer list. I hope whatever is going on can have a workable solution for you.
I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.
Posts: 1017 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA |
metamorphisis
♀ 12041
Member # 12041 | | Posted: 8:16 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013 | |
((((((((((ssm)))))))))))
Talk to us when you're ready. We're here. 
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
Posts: 51782 | Registered: Sep 2006 |
stupidstupidme
♀ 11888
Member # 11888 | | Posted: 8:31 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013 | |
My daughter. It started with our NC beach vaca last summer.
It's been a rough time. Thought we had gotten through the worst and things were on the upswing. They were... for almost six months.
Today, that all changed. She is gone from my home, and will remain so. Tough love is.... tough. Lots of pain and fear. Uncertainty... and idk... confusion. I just wish she didn't make the choice she did. Or even knowing it was much of a choice. I love her more than my life and I can't fix this for her. It's a horrible feeling
Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson
Posts: 19747 | Registered: Aug 2006 |
metamorphisis
♀ 12041
Member # 12041 | | Posted: 8:35 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013 | |
((((((((SSM)))))))))
I'm sorry. I can't imagine how hard that is and I know it's not something you wanted to do 
I hope whatever it is isn't too serious to recover from and she learns from it
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
Posts: 51782 | Registered: Sep 2006 |
ThoughtIKnewYa
♀ 18449
Member # 18449 | | Posted: 9:46 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013 | |
(((((((((SSM)))))))))
Posts: 12215 | Registered: Mar 2008 |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 9:52 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013 | |
((((((((ssm))))))))
Posts: 49745 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
Ripley123
♀ 25277
Member # 25277 | | Posted: 10:01 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013 | |
I am so sorry. My daughter went thru a rough patch years ago but we survived it. I am sending you hugs, strength and prayers and feeling in my heart you will have a happy ending...
So let's roll the dice, one more time
Take a chance on love again tonight
Risk it all, lay it on the line
Let the skeletons fight for life
Tonight, hold on tight, as we collide -kid rock
Posts: 1683 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: The land of OZ |
authenticnow
♀ 16024
Member # 16024 | | Posted: 5:07 AM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
(((((ssm)))))
“Empathy has no script. There is no right way or wrong way to do it. It’s simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of “you’re not alone.” ~ Brene Brown
Posts: 54941 | Registered: Sep 2007 |
Deeply Scared
♀ 2
Member # 2 | | Posted: 6:49 AM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
(((((SSM)))))
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Posts: 210060 | Registered: May 2002 |
SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229 | | Posted: 6:54 AM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
((SSM)) There is no bigger heartbreak than mamma heartbreak.
I hear your heart breaking mamma.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Posts: 5996 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia |
ajsmom
♀ 17460
Member # 17460 | | Posted: 8:23 AM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013 | |
Hugs, SSM.
We're here for you.
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
Posts: 21377 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back |
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