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User Topic: oh fuck... when does it end
stupidstupidme
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Shocked  Posted: 4:46 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When do I get a break


Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson

Posts: 19738 | Registered: Aug 2006
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 4:47 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((SSM)))


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24672 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 5:30 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ssm)))

Hang in there sweetie, good and bad things come in waves.


“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Posts: 3533 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
stupidstupidme
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Default  Posted: 6:15 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is bad


Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson

Posts: 19738 | Registered: Aug 2006
weeping willow
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Default  Posted: 6:19 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((SSM))))

I'm praying that things will be better for you very soon.


BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 36 years


Posts: 1793 | Registered: Feb 2009
jrc1963
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Member # 26531
Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SSM... Talk to us if you can...

What's happened?


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24672 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 6:35 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ssm)))

Lean on us. We are here for you. Sending you strength and hope.


Posts: 36474 | Registered: Mar 2011
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Ssm))

You're in my thoughts. Take a deep breath.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7820 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:54 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((ssm))))) Holding you in my thoughts, honey.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26192 | Registered: Aug 2011
betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((SSM)) I don't know what's going on, and am hoping you can share if you are able so that we can better support you, but in the mean time, huge hugs, for you and yours and I'll add you to my prayer list. I hope whatever is going on can have a workable solution for you.


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

Posts: 879 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((((((ssm)))))))))))
Talk to us when you're ready. We're here.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

Posts: 45294 | Registered: Sep 2006
stupidstupidme
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Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My daughter. It started with our NC beach vaca last summer.

It's been a rough time. Thought we had gotten through the worst and things were on the upswing. They were... for almost six months.

Today, that all changed. She is gone from my home, and will remain so. Tough love is.... tough. Lots of pain and fear. Uncertainty... and idk... confusion. I just wish she didn't make the choice she did. Or even knowing it was much of a choice. I love her more than my life and I can't fix this for her. It's a horrible feeling


Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson

Posts: 19738 | Registered: Aug 2006
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 8:35 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((((SSM)))))))))

I'm sorry. I can't imagine how hard that is and I know it's not something you wanted to do
I hope whatever it is isn't too serious to recover from and she learns from it



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((((SSM)))))))))

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((((ssm))))))))

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Ripley123
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry. My daughter went thru a rough patch years ago but we survived it. I am sending you hugs, strength and prayers and feeling in my heart you will have a happy ending...


So let's roll the dice, one more time
Take a chance on love again tonight
Risk it all, lay it on the line
Let the skeletons fight for life
Tonight, hold on tight, as we collide -kid rock


Posts: 1683 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: The land of OZ
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:07 AM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((ssm)))))


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 38696 | Registered: Sep 2007
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 6:49 AM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((SSM)))))


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 198850 | Registered: May 2002
SBB
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Default  Posted: 6:54 AM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((SSM)) There is no bigger heartbreak than mamma heartbreak.

I hear your heart breaking mamma.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5660 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 8:23 AM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs, SSM.

We're here for you.

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


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