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iamasurvivor
♀ 29728
Member # 29728

Posted: 8:49 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013

I am starting the annulment process and I have to write the story of our dating history. I have been trying to do this for the last 3 months! I know I need to do this, but it is so hard! This is 30 years ago, and we didn't date that long before we got married, which when I look back should have been a red flag.

I really could use some suggestions on how long it should be, and what I should make sure I include in my dating story.

I will come out stronger!

Posts: 260 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: iowa

bbee
♀ 17840
Member # 17840

Posted: 9:57 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013

I have no suggestions for you but I do have big hugs.

(((iamasurvivor)))

This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1

Posts: 6680 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US

meaniemouse
♀ 10798
Member # 10798

Posted: 10:05 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013

I went through the annulment process and like you, only dated my ex for two months before we got engaged and only 4 months from engagement to marriage. I hit this hard in my statement saying the short time I knew my ex was one reason that it was such a disaster. There was more that was able to tie in with the reason for seeking an annulment--if you want more details PM me.

The process is long and sometimes painful--but more than worth it.

Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James

Posts: 2273 | Registered: May 2006 | From: Midwest

jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528

Posted: 10:08 PM, May 6th (Monday), 2013

(((ima)))

Posts: 50580 | Registered: Mar 2011

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