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User Topic: updating your profile
♀ 13700
Member # 13700
Default  Posted: 5:29 AM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just wondered if anyone updates their profile on their page?
Age,kids ages?status? etc
Just curious or do you let the information stay frozen in time?

me:52 BS
him:48.serial cheater
Married: 20 years
Too many affairs
1 OC
Too many false R's
Now he is love with another
Update:DIVORCED..not sure I like it but at least it is the truth!!
He has married OW and have a 2 yr old a

Posts: 856 | Registered: Feb 2007 | From: somewhere
♀ 34677
Member # 34677
Default  Posted: 5:46 AM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I took all of my info off when the OW appeared to be cyberstalking me.

Posts: 1566 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: east coast
♀ 32810
Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 6:14 AM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't have kids to update, but I have updated my own info along the way. I actually have a google doc where I've kept a few of the earlier (longer) incarnations of my profile, from when it contained details of the story that no longer matters (the one that brought me here).

I see some people change theirs, and some who don't.

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 14452 | Registered: Jul 2011
Sad in AZ
♀ 24239
Member # 24239
Default  Posted: 6:16 AM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just have to change my age on my birthday; I have to remember to go backwards from now on...

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-62
Him: WXH-62
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

Posts: 25302 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Arizona
♀ 35229
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 6:24 AM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You mean here? I currently leave it at the stats on DD. The beginning of my journey here. It serves as a reminder to me of that moment in time.

I may change it later. I suspect I will erase him in time, right now his gender and age is pertinent to my story here. My childrens ages on DD will always be pertinent to this part of my story.

Interesting question. I don't want to keep track of how old he is now. That guy is not the guy I married. He's not even the guy I'm divorcing. He's that douchebag's even bigger douchebag evil uglier twin.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 6015 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
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