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Amazonia (original poster member #32810) posted at 2:37 PM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
There is so much truth to this. The first part is something XH and I used to say - I'll always put you first and you'll always put me first, and we'll never have a problem. Except humanity creeps in with real life, and it doesn't work out that way.
Love this.
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"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Spirit13 ( member #31758) posted at 2:44 PM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
Men were deceivers ever; one foot in sea and one on shore, to one thing constant never.
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 5:35 PM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 9:07 PM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
foreverempty ( member #34426) posted at 11:39 PM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013
I like that.
Wish I could subscribe to it and I'm trying to but it's a hard change to make.
Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.
Why?? ( member #18132) posted at 12:42 AM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013
What a great post!!! Thanks, need to keep this in mind 
"And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years."
"If you want something in this life, reach out and grab it."
h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 12:44 AM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013
Thanks for posting that, Ama. I printed it out for one of my students who is having trouble with her asshole boyfriend and is a budding codependent.
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 5:58 AM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013
Love this - and really needed it right now. Thank you Ama.
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
dlmos ( member #36839) posted at 6:02 AM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013
Wise words, especially for me today 
BH (32)
DS - 7, DD - 6
Divorced
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