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Don't feel like I can make it through day

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 savvy (original poster member #39102) posted at 2:45 PM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013

It's 930am and I want to go to bed already. I have one more class to get through then home to what. An empty house no one to care. I have a therapy appointment tonight at 530 but it seems so far away. Everyone is so busy with their lives. I just want to call Ws and tell him to come home but he won't anyway. He still" figuring things out". I can't bear this pain. I'm so scared. I had to go to a party last night. It felt so awkward. I feel like I was the only one there alone. I can't smile I can't concentrate I just don't want to deal with this anymore

me-BS (52).
2 children 24 and 23
Together 33 years divorced one year
Ow-(30)and she knew me knew he is married.
D-day 1 4/24/2013
D-day 2. 7/9/2013. Day after anniversary
D-day 3. 8/12/13.
Filing for divorce

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KeepCalm_CarryOn ( member #33374) posted at 4:11 PM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013

Is there something fun you can do for yourself today? Get your nails done? Hair? Buy some new shoes? Something to focus on yourself!

It's a rough road, but you can do this.

You are not dealing with rational people or situations. Normal thought processes won't work...story of my life.

Me- BW, 30
Him- fWh, 36
Mostly R'd, minus a few scars...bought a house and got a puppy...And baby makes 3! She arrived August 2013

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OneFootForward ( member #39136) posted at 4:11 PM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013

Going to send you a PM!

Me: 42 BS
Her: 41 EMA
Married: 16 years
D-Day#1: 04/17/13
D-Day#2: 05/8/13
Children: 9,5 (girls)
Om: High School Flame
"Marital problems doesn't make someone a cheater just like financial problems doesn't make someone a thief"

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 7:02 PM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013

(((hugs))) I know that it's scary and horrible and lonely. Please take yourself out for a long walk or if you have one, go to the gym and get some exercise. Do something nice for YOU! Just one thing. (((more hugs)))

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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stilltrying2025 ( member #39145) posted at 7:31 PM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013

My only advise to you is this; go for a long walk in the country! You can scream, yell, swear, pray, cry throw a tantrum; anything you want/need to do to let some of the anger go and no one will hear you! That's what I've been trying to do lately and let me tell ya, when I get back home I don't feel as bad as when I left. HUGS......you need them!!!!

Me: 38
WH: 43
DD: Thanksgiving Day, 2012
Status: Separated

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stillcrying4ever ( member #38310) posted at 8:02 PM on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013

I feel so bad for you. Wish there was something I could do for you. Listen to all these good people. We are all here for you. Be good to yourself. Go for that walk and get a pedicure. Take care.

D Day May 27, 2012
Married 39 years
2 kids, 3 grand kids and 1 on the way

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