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User Topic: Don't feel like I can make it through day
♀ 39102
Member # 39102
Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's 930am and I want to go to bed already. I have one more class to get through then home to what. An empty house no one to care. I have a therapy appointment tonight at 530 but it seems so far away. Everyone is so busy with their lives. I just want to call Ws and tell him to come home but he won't anyway. He still" figuring things out". I can't bear this pain. I'm so scared. I had to go to a party last night. It felt so awkward. I feel like I was the only one there alone. I can't smile I can't concentrate I just don't want to deal with this anymore

me-BS (52).
2 children 24 and 23
Together 33 years divorced one year
Ow-(30)and she knew me knew he is married.
D-day 1 4/24/2013
D-day 2. 7/9/2013. Day after anniversary
D-day 3. 8/12/13.
Filing for divorce

Posts: 135 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: connecticut
♀ 33374
Member # 33374
Default  Posted: 10:11 AM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is there something fun you can do for yourself today? Get your nails done? Hair? Buy some new shoes? Something to focus on yourself!

It's a rough road, but you can do this.

You are not dealing with rational people or situations. Normal thought processes won't work...story of my life.

Me- BW, 30
Him- fWh, 36
Mostly R'd, minus a few scars...bought a house and got a puppy...And baby makes 3! She arrived August 2013

Posts: 2156 | Registered: Sep 2011
♂ 39136
Member # 39136
Default  Posted: 10:11 AM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Going to send you a PM!

Me: 42 BS
Her: 41 EMA
Married: 16 years
D-Day#1: 04/17/13
D-Day#2: 05/8/13
Children: 9,5 (girls)
Om: High School Flame
"Marital problems doesn't make someone a cheater just like financial problems doesn't make someone a thief"

Posts: 71 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Mobile, AL
♀ 35812
Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((hugs))) I know that it's scary and horrible and lonely. Please take yourself out for a long walk or if you have one, go to the gym and get some exercise. Do something nice for YOU! Just one thing. (((more hugs)))

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

Posts: 10081 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
♀ 39145
Member # 39145
Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My only advise to you is this; go for a long walk in the country! You can scream, yell, swear, pray, cry throw a tantrum; anything you want/need to do to let some of the anger go and no one will hear you! That's what I've been trying to do lately and let me tell ya, when I get back home I don't feel as bad as when I left. need them!!!!

Me: 38
WH: 43
DD: Thanksgiving Day, 2012
Status: Separated

Posts: 184 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Minnesota
♀ 38310
Member # 38310
Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, May 7th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel so bad for you. Wish there was something I could do for you. Listen to all these good people. We are all here for you. Be good to yourself. Go for that walk and get a pedicure. Take care.

D Day May 27, 2012
Married 39 years
2 kids, 3 grand kids and 1 on the way

Posts: 190 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: USA
Topic Posts: 6

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