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fallingquickly posted 5/7/2013 12:33 PM

My WH has been following my posts. I no longer feel safe posting here. You have all been so wonderful and supportive. I will miss being able to vent and get input from people who understand my pain.

I hope that your situations work out in a way to make you happy.

betrayedfriend posted 5/7/2013 12:43 PM

you can always choose to post privately via a pm if you still want and need support, I hate to see you leave if you still need support.

welcome14 posted 5/7/2013 12:49 PM

It is beyond selfish that the person that sent you here is the one who rips away the best support you could get in your time of need. Unfortunately, totally expected of the WS mindset. ((hugs))
eta: good job fallingquickly's WS. well done on your part again.

[This message edited by welcome14 at 12:51 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)]

ButterflyGirl posted 5/7/2013 12:57 PM

Geez, what an ass.. It's like reading someone's private journal. None of your damn business!!

You will still have the ability to read what others have written, so perhaps you can find some support by hearing other's stories and the advice given to them..

And I agree with betrayedfriend that you could still reach out via pm anytime you need to, and I for one will always be happy to reply if you need someone to talk to..

timeforchange posted 5/7/2013 13:35 PM

I am so sorry this has happened.
Maybe it helps you know your recent decision is possibly the right one??

Keep reading though.... You don't have to log in to do that.

I for one would be happy to offer advice by PM if you like.

fallingquickly posted 5/7/2013 13:40 PM

Thank you all so much. This site and the people here are incredible. I will keep reading.

still2suspicious posted 5/7/2013 13:43 PM

geez, what a f'ng asshat!!

FQ-please continue to read, and PM any one of us! YOU deserve to have the help you need. Any time. We are always here for each other, but you know that, right?

Sending hugs to FQ, and the one finger salute to FQ's WH!!

Abbondad posted 5/7/2013 13:52 PM

I was considering doing the same thing. I am paranoid about my wife's vindictiveness. Is there a way to delete one's account and remove all posts?

(I would definitely like to stay and stick to PMs.)

dmari posted 5/7/2013 14:07 PM

(((((fallingquickly))))) Not posting is a safe decision. Please also pm me if you need support. Take care.

Deeply Scared posted 5/7/2013 14:07 PM

Is there a way to delete one's account and remove all posts?

No that is against the guidelines, please do not start deleting your posts.

Abbondad posted 5/7/2013 14:11 PM

Deeply scared,

But can administrator do this? Particularly if a member does not feel safe and is trying to protect himself, for,example in a potential child custody battle?

Deeply Scared posted 5/7/2013 14:16 PM


In the history of SI (which is 12 years old) we have never done that and I don't foresee us starting now.

This is a public site but its also an annonymous site, we always tell people to use caution when posting.

la433 posted 5/7/2013 14:28 PM


I'm sorry that your WH is such a loser that makes you want to vomit your lungs out... Just know that not all of us men are like him. Good luck.

[This message edited by la433 at 12:16 AM, May 8th (Wednesday)]

dindy posted 5/7/2013 14:37 PM

fallingquickly I'm sorry you are no longer safe. I echo what the others have said and pm anyone if you need advice.

I have suspected that xWS has been doing the same thing so I shall be refraining from posting for a while just to be sure.

It's cowardly behaviour!

Sending strength.

Deeply Scared posted 5/7/2013 14:51 PM


Please refrain from baiting anyone that reads on this site, that is of absolutely no help at all.

SusanR posted 5/7/2013 19:24 PM

My WH started checking out my posts and brought them up in our MC sessions. I felt violated and I told him so. However, i quit posting and getting support here for awhile. in hindsight, it really doesn't matter. i told the truth and shared my feelings, somethings very foreign to him. He may be reading my posts now but I don't care anymore. I am done protecting him from the consequences of his behavior.

[This message edited by SusanR at 7:26 PM, May 7th (Tuesday)]

LadyQ posted 5/7/2013 21:31 PM

What SusanR said. Also would like to echo others' sentiments: keep reading, and you can always pm....

gma56 posted 5/7/2013 21:36 PM

If you read a reponse on someone's thread don't hesitate to PM any of us. This has happened in the past with other WS and you can have wonderful support via PMs.

Kajem posted 5/7/2013 21:49 PM

PM's are a wonderful way to get help specific to you. Please do not hesitate to reach out in a PM when you need to.



fallingquickly posted 5/7/2013 21:56 PM

Thank you so much.

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