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 strawblond30 (original poster member #6263) posted at 3:53 AM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013

I just found out I need a partial hysterectomy early stages of cancer. Anyone else go through this and any side effects. I'm having it vaginal surgery .

Divorced 2013 after several years of infidelity on both sides. Remarried July 2018 my new husband Is opposite from Ex. I can actually breath with out worrying what he is doing. Living my best life now .

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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 3:54 AM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013

I'm so sorry. How did you find out? I will be keeping you in my prayers... or good thoughts depending on what you prefer.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 4:07 AM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013

(((strawblond)))

Sending you mojo, strength, and good thoughts.

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 strawblond30 (original poster member #6263) posted at 4:46 AM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013

I go yearly for check up and struggle with irregular periods.

Divorced 2013 after several years of infidelity on both sides. Remarried July 2018 my new husband Is opposite from Ex. I can actually breath with out worrying what he is doing. Living my best life now .

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okaynow ( member #13813) posted at 5:20 AM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013

Try the website www.hystersisters.com. I had a uterine biopsy a few weeks ago and found the site when I was concerned about the possibility of having a hysterectomy. It looks informative and supportive. I hope it helps you.

From what I've learned, uterine cancer is one of the easier things to cure and a vaginal hysterectomy will reduce both discomfort and downtime.

(((hugs)))

Married 18 yrs, together 25+.
D-day: 2/18/07.
1 child
The story doesn't really matter anymore. Time is a great healer. Life is good.

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click4it ( member #209) posted at 5:37 AM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013

(((straw))) Sending you warm hugs. I hope you have tons of support through this.

Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?

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Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 12:53 PM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013

Any questions, write a list and take with you to the Dr. Take someone with you for appts to write down what is said. it is easy when you are stressed to be overwhelmed and not get everything the first time it is said.

Hystersisters is good support, but much of the info is outdated.

Sending prayers for a complete healing.

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 12:56 PM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013

(((((strawblond))))) Oh, honey. I'm so sorry you are facing this. Sending you tons of strength and comfort.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Faithful w/Love ( member #33128) posted at 7:43 PM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013

Sending you tons of prayer and mojo.

BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"

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notmeanymore ( member #9772) posted at 1:18 PM on Thursday, May 9th, 2013

I had a partial hysterectomy (uterus only) vaginally. But not for cancer.

Obviously I can't compare to other methods, but after one kind of hard day post-surgery I felt great. There was some bruising down there, but that was about it.

Feel free to PM me any specific questions you have. It has had no negative impact on any facet of my life.

"Put the cuckoo back in the clock baby" - Four Brothers

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EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 1:24 PM on Thursday, May 9th, 2013

Hugs!

I am actually have the surgery on Wednesday (no cancer) and I second the hystersisters site....it has been SOOOOOO helpful for me on what to expect, etc.

You can PM me if you have any questions.

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 6:56 PM on Thursday, May 9th, 2013

Good luck, a Vag Hyst is not a big deal, I had it and was begging to go back to work in 2 weeks. Spent one night in the hospital, and the best part, I never had to deal with the crazy constant bleeding that led up to it.

(((((and good MoJo and prayers)))))

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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gardenparty ( member #12050) posted at 4:02 AM on Friday, May 10th, 2013

Hugs and prayers to you.

divorced!

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hurtbs ( member #10866) posted at 4:44 AM on Friday, May 10th, 2013

Big hugs

((((strawberry)))

Me - 40 something. WXH DDay 2006, Divorced 2012
WBF DDay #1 9/2022 #2 11/2022
Single

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