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GrievingMommy posted 5/7/2013 22:03 PM

Today I found out NPD WXH is working at his six-figure a year job by day, and a second job at Sears selling appliances!! Bwahahaaa He swore he'd never do it again as he did it 15 years ago back before his degrees. (I'm not slamming Sears, but he's such a NPD and everything is beneath him....according to him.)

Paying child support for children you never see adds up. KARMA lol And a new wife who is a big spender and loves to shop doesn't help and who's not currently working and exwife #1 takingn him back to court for the CS he's not been paying.. I've chuckled the whole day.

I bet his former life with me isn't looking so bad now. A nice comfortable life with your loving family and trips, etc. Now he's just screwing himself over and over.

(I'm just hoping to not get my CS docked when he starts paying his exwife more.)

KARMA! It took awhile, but it's finally happened.

LifeIsBroken posted 5/7/2013 22:07 PM

I love karma stories; thank you for sharing.

peridot posted 5/7/2013 22:11 PM

Will CSE use a second job as income? Maybe you can get the CS modified based on his increase of income.

Random thoughts posted 5/7/2013 22:16 PM

Why do I feel the need to go to Sears and give the salesman in the appliance dept like 20,000 questions about that washer and dryer set that he will be looking for the Punk'd cameras.

Also need to rent an annoying child to leave fingerprints on the stainless steal appliances.

ruinedandbroken posted 5/7/2013 22:21 PM

lol! Love it! My ex had to get a second job too...as a bartender! Then, to add more karma, he lost his day job; the career he worked years at, due to womanizing behavior. That is some Saaaweeeet karma!

NoraLee posted 5/7/2013 22:30 PM

D/S has the best karma stories!!! Thanks for letting us share the joy!!!

la433 posted 5/8/2013 00:47 AM

I'm just hoping to not get my CS docked when he starts paying his exwife more.

The amount of child support is not a negotiated amount, is it? I'd definitely talk to the courts and get first dibs.

OH, Karma...love it. Thanks for sharing.

Dadtryingtocope posted 5/8/2013 15:05 PM

Jeez. SO jealous. I want a Karma story. Yea for you GM! :)

He will be sorry. You should totally go into Sears and buy something from one of the other salesmen!

Whalers11 posted 5/8/2013 15:17 PM

I love a good karma story!

My WxSO had it pretty good with me... I was the primary wage earner and he spent a good chunk of the years with me not working, or being severely underemployed (read: he'd work a minimun wage job part-time then quit after a few weeks when he didn't like the boss telling him what to do). I really didn't care much but I think it bruised his ego...

Anyway, his job karma story is that when he and OW split up he had to get a full-time job. He had no job skills so he ended up with a manual labor job that didn't pay great. He got hurt on the job, is out on disability with reduced pay but they are still garnishing his wages for child support for the full amount so he is only bringing home a little over $100/week. He probably spends all that on gas because he is back with his parents in a neighboring state and is constantly driving the 2+ hours back and forth for visitation with OC and doctor's appointments. Sucks to be him.

GrievingMommy posted 5/8/2013 21:59 PM

I think a good Karma story is great for the soul!

He's been working at Sears since December according to the W2 that he had to send to xwife #1 for child support modification. I KNOW it KILLED him to send that W2. lol

Here they base CS off of the main full-time job so anything above that isn't calculated into CS. Since xwife had her CS case opened first, she's primary.

Either way, this still makes me giggle. So.....who lives in MI that can go visit and touch all the appliances with sticky fingers??

I was thinking of emailing him and asking what he recommends for a fridge........j/k.

peridot posted 5/9/2013 00:06 AM

They make commission at Sears. Someone who lives close should go there and ask all kinds of questions, have him look all kinds of info up on those computers they use, act all interested like he's gonna get a sale, then back out. Waste a whole bunch of his time.