My husband's EA turned into a PA. I wanted him to move out and wanted a separation 7 months after I found out about the EA. He wouldn't.
Fast forward one year, and now my husband has prepared a separation agreement from a template he found online. He wants to discuss this but I get this lump in the middle of my chest, now that it is in front of me. He wants to finalize before he moves out.
He told the OW that he loves her and that nothing between he and I were ever good. I put this separation on the table and he wants to move forward with it. Before I wanted the separation and now I'm reluctant. He's not interested in reconciling. He says we are not compatible.
We have a 7 yo child and it will be very difficult for her. She is daddy's girl and buddy.
On some days, I feel fine but whenever he brings up the separation agreement, I start to feel something heavy on my chest. How am I supposed to feel? I have been through sadness, anger, denial, semi-acceptance.
I would appreciate you sharing your thoughts and experience, and how you got through it. I never ever saw myself getting a separation/divorce. At this point, I think we will end up divorced since he is pushing for the separation agreement so that he can move out.
[This message edited by FieldsOfLavender at 12:55 PM, May 8th (Wednesday)]